natwilliams Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 I met these two girls once at my local college campus, let's just call them Kate and Mary. Both are attractive but I am a little more attracted to Mary sexually and probably personally too even though she is very shy like me. Kate however is much much more forward in texting me and inviting me out. The thing is every time we have hung out so far, both Kate and Mary were present, even though Kate is the one talking to me and texting with me. The other day she sent me Mary's number saying Mary had a "question about sound systems". Could it be that this whole time Kate is routing for me to actually date Mary? How can I tell which one actually wants to date me for real? And what if I just feel more compatible with Mary - how can I avoid the damage control of Kate being pissed?
HeyKat Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 I met these two girls once at my local college campus, let's just call them Kate and Mary. Both are attractive but I am a little more attracted to Mary sexually and probably personally too even though she is very shy like me. Kate however is much much more forward in texting me and inviting me out. The thing is every time we have hung out so far, both Kate and Mary were present, even though Kate is the one talking to me and texting with me. The other day she sent me Mary's number saying Mary had a "question about sound systems". Could it be that this whole time Kate is routing for me to actually date Mary? How can I tell which one actually wants to date me for real? And what if I just feel more compatible with Mary - how can I avoid the damage control of Kate being pissed? If Kate is more outgoing than Mary, it could certainly be she is trying to set you up, if you choose not to ask for a threesome - just as Mary out. She will either be interested or not, and if it upsets Kate oh well. Never know until you try.
Author natwilliams Posted October 27, 2013 Author Posted October 27, 2013 I just get the sense that if I call up her quiet friend (and roommate btw) that she will be super jealous and that will sabotage everything. And then I'll have nothing. Whereas if I keep hanging/texting with Kate, that'll be something. I mean it seems like she's into me, not setting me up. The phone number pass may have been to seem "relaxed" about sharing, but yeah right. For example tonight was her birthday and I came. She texted me a thank you at 3am.
Author natwilliams Posted October 27, 2013 Author Posted October 27, 2013 Also how likely is it that roommates would want to threesome a guy? Seems like that could run some risk of complication.
Assasda Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 Why do you want to know any of this bullcrap? Just have fun with both of them and let it play out. When you complicate things, things get complicated
theothersully Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 Also how likely is it that roommates would want to threesome a guy? Seems like that could run some risk of complication. Depending on the girls, very likely. Had my first 3 some in college with a set of roommates. Just feel it out slowly. Or.. choose the quieter one, but take it slow enough that the other one can't get mad at you because you are such good friends.
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