gixx3r Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 My girlfriend said she needed space and time to think. I admit I haven't been the best bf possible lately but never the less she said she needed space. She currently lives with me but has her own house so when she decided she wanted space I told her I understand and I am willing to give it to her and whatever else she needed. I even mentioned that I thought it would be a good idea if she stayed at her own house to have more space to herself to be alone and think but she refused and is still staying at my house pretty much ignoring me while we are home together. She still sleeps in my bed so I thought to give her her space she wanted I'd sleep on the couch well she apparently still wants me to sleep in the bed. We are not having sex (no big deal) when we sleep with each other. We went from texting all the tine throughout the day to where we rarely text at all I only text if she texts me first. We have had something planned to do together for a long time now and just rescently she says she don't want me to go that she would have to think about it.....I'm a lil confused as to why she wouldnt take the opportunity to be at her own house and be alone to think so I can honor her request for space idk why she would put herself in the situation to where she would have to see me everyday when she's the one who asked for space in the first place.....she still tells me she loves me everyday b4 she leaves for work and gives me a kiss but acts totally different when she's around me ...this all is just kinda weird and confusing to me Any input is greatly appreciated...
Author gixx3r Posted October 27, 2013 Author Posted October 27, 2013 Not sure she says no but I guess theres always a possibility.....but if there else why bother with space why not just tell me she doesn't wanna be with me it would be way easier....just simply leave and go back to your own house ya know
crazybestie101 Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 Not sure she says no but I guess theres always a possibility.....but if there else why bother with space why not just tell me she doesn't wanna be with me it would be way easier....just simply leave and go back to your own house ya know Wow , looks like someone is too eager to break up.
Author gixx3r Posted October 27, 2013 Author Posted October 27, 2013 Totally not the case at all I do not wanna lose her ....I know the space is a result of my actions as of lately so I am trying to do anything and everything to honor and respect her request for space. I've told her from day one that she ever felt she wanted to be with someone else to just be open and honest about it and just tell me that way it would be easier on both of us.....I love the girl to death but she's confusing the hell out of me right now
crazybestie101 Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 Ay, if he wants out too, more power to him. Yea, that's true.
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