Juntao Posted December 12, 2004 Posted December 12, 2004 i just have a simple question to ask you girls. And i would appreciate if u can answer. well ok, im just wondering sometimes when i look at a random girl in the eye, she gives me a slight, shy smile. What does this mean, does she think im good looking and want me to approach her? And after i get a girls number, what and where do you think are the best places to take a girl our on dates? dinner?
Merin Posted December 12, 2004 Posted December 12, 2004 Juntao, If you catch a girls eye and she looks directly back at you with a smile and holds that gaze for a moment.. YES she probably has an interest in you and wants you to approach her;) Once you get her number by all means call her (and personally I don't believe in the unwritten 3 days wait time rule to call a girl you're genuinely interested in) Ask her to go have lunch with you.. sometimes it seems there is less pressure in lunch then dinner for a first date after your initial meeting of someone.. IMO it's just more relaxed and casual. At that time you can learn more about her and vice versa to discover what interest you may have in common etc.. which makes it easier to determine what other kinds of things she may like to do. Good Luck! P.S. Don't be to shy to approach a girl you have an interest in.. if you've been watching her and you notice she isn't looking away from you.. she's interested.. so don't second guess this.
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 12, 2004 Posted December 12, 2004 Yup, exactly. You can also take a look at how she smiles too. Is she smiling with her eyes too, or is it just one of those polite 'mouth smiles'? Sometimes if I catch a guy's eye and I don't really mean to - I'll give a polite slight smile, and break eye contact pretty quick. The key? Eyebrows. Its weird, but its a universal in all cultures - the raising of eyebrows is a sign of recognition and interest. Paired with a genuine smile, and sustained eye contact - its an invitation for saying a friendly 'hello'.
kellyp1 Posted December 12, 2004 Posted December 12, 2004 I like the creative first dates in a group setting. Something like a benefit event, sports event, theater event, etc... (be careful with the sports one with some girls). Something in a large group setting in case things don't go well but enough one on one time to get to know each other a little bit. And the smiling... well, I always say it depends on the accompanying look in the eye. I know when I am flirting that look changes.
bebop Posted December 12, 2004 Posted December 12, 2004 I've run into scads of trouble with this over the years. I'm a naturally outgoing, social and friendly person. I've found that men constantly misread a friendly smile or a cheerful reaction, at least in my experience. They read much too much into it. When I'm actively flirting, or actively interested, They Will Know It. Not the same two things at all.
Author Juntao Posted December 13, 2004 Author Posted December 13, 2004 hey thanks for the reply girls, im pretty sure when the girls give me a shy smile when i lookat them for a split second, i guess that means they are somewhat interested. I hate to admit it, but i would say that im attractive, (i noe i sounds very arrogant saying this) but yeah, i guess thats one reason why the girsl might look and smile at me for a split second. Lotta ppl say i look like wonbin, he is handsome though, what u all reckon http://img14.exs.cx/img14/5871/wonbin10.jpg
LucreziaBorgia Posted December 13, 2004 Posted December 13, 2004 Lotta ppl say i look like wonbin, he is handsome though, what u all reckon http://img14.exs.cx/img14/5871/wonbin10.jpg I think Wonbin is smokin' hot. Very good looking. When you catch a shy smile from a girl, smile back! Get the number and then take her out somewhere casual and comfortable at first to get to know her - like a daytime coffee date, or something like that. Then if it goes well, you can move on to dinner dates, movie dates and stuff like that. Hope it turns out well for you.
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