Bellaisle23 Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 Why is it ok for him to text me out of the blue, apologizing, thanking me for things I did in the past , asking how I'm doing after weeks of no contact but when I reach out just to say hi etc (not talking about the past or "us") he's aloof and not that enthusiastic through text. Right now he's working ft and in nursing school. He's stressed over being 28 and not really doing anything with his life his "excuse" for the split was stress. He explained this the first time he texted me out of the blue (like he regrets it). The 2nd time he contacted me I said to actually talk. His words: "i assumed u didn't want to" (though I've been making random acts of kindness the entire breakup so that makes no sense) So when i try to strike up a convo it just seems dry Why is it ok for him to contact me but I can't say anything or if I suggest meeting up he politely cancels. We were only together two months. I really miss him so this is giving me false hope he was never the game playing type more like the type your mom picks out for you.
ponchsox Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 Ignore him, block him, do whatever you do to go NC. Everytime you respond to him you are setting yourself back a week. 2
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