LaceyFace Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 I knew what I was getting myself into 2 years ago I just never knew it would be this hard. Bf is separated, wife lives out of state and he is here with me. But lately things have been rough. He claims he loves me and wants me yet I feel I'm getting played. Lately a reference was made that gf has got to go, never again, I wasn't supposed to see that msg, just happened upon it....broke my heart. Things this past week have been rough but I have never loved someone so strongly before. I don't want to lose him. If history repets itself for the millionth time,...he will be back. I just don't know.what to do. I hate not having a secure relationship but my heart tells me to stay.
whichwayisup Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 Stop listening to your heart and go with your gut and head. There really isn't that much to say except that if you are sick of feeling this way, DO something about it! This is your life and if you hate the way you feel, how he makes you feel and the situation itself, end it! It'll be hard and painful but at least you will be able to find someone else in the future when you're ready to date again who will love ONLY you and you won't have to share him with anybody else.
Author LaceyFace Posted October 26, 2013 Author Posted October 26, 2013 It's weird because even tho he has moved on...his expectations are so high of what he expects from me being successful it's ruining us. I'm a professional stylist....I may never be famous, but I'm damn good working in a decent place. I feel like he is making excuses now. I feel so confused. I will have to post the full story later.....it's so obvious....I'm stupid....lol
devilish innocent Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 The head is really just as important as the heart when it comes to matters of love. When either one is missing, the relationship isn't going to work out. You say he's going to come back for the millionth time. I think you also know that he's going to leave you for the millionth time. And you'll be hurt again and again and again. Unless you decide to end things. So what if you've never loved anybody so strongly before? If it's one sided, then that love is only going to lead to heartache. He doesn't love you or he wouldn't be thinking of leaving you. There are men in this world who you could love as much as they love you. But you've been letting yourself settle for something that's much less than you should. 1
Author LaceyFace Posted October 27, 2013 Author Posted October 27, 2013 Sad part is I know all of this. Things were so good then recently went so sour. It sucks....
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