lausanda Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 so, this guy, butt crazy about me, tried for months to hook up with me, said he really 'love' loved me, initially, i told him it wasnt possible for us to be together (which was true back then) but then i fell for him. we're dating since more than 8 months now. the thing is, he says i've changed, never specifies how, says i'm getting overinvolved. He says he really loves me, always has and will but thinks it ain't working out and he's not serious or loves me as much as he used to before. but he says he want us to start fresh and yet no genuinely 'lets work it out' sign from him...we've shared a nice relationship, but i just dont understand this -_- its kinda stressing me up. i want to make it work. he does love me i have a feeling, i want it to grow again and not fade out. jeesh, guys are complicated.
monkeymaid Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 not really. we need to be fed, sexed, and know that you care about us enough to respect us (including hanging out with the boys, not jealous etc... and have an adventurous non-prissy side sometimes.) If it is in the way we like, then we return the favor (unless we are immature douchebags) ....it generally opens a little more with the give and take slowly, but after 8 mos, i think you get the idea. if you give him the room he is not verbally telling you that he wants, he might just come around. be cool and have your own life but still let us know that we are number 1.
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