hurricane495 Posted December 11, 2004 Posted December 11, 2004 Ok so Since September I have met this girl at my work I work there part time as a second job and We instantly hit it off she started telling me about how she cant meet the right guy and thinks she never will well twice she made plans with me and both times blew me off but apolagized i was like no problem.Well as of late the flirting has seemed to have increased when she sees me she says hey Handsome and when we are on the phone or on break we end up talking about sex and stuff like that the other night i needed her keys which were clipped to her shirt and she gestured for me to grab them but i didnt realize that till now but i have made it quite obvious that I want her (Not to obvious)but have given her some hints so the other night she asked me to pick her up a coffee on the way to work so i did when i gave it to her she said i love you if noone was in the store right now id kiss you. SO then i said i need to get into the office and she said so we can make out and i just chuckled,then i walked up to an associate and the associate asked me what i wanted and the girl i like was right there and said he wants me. So is she flirting with me Does she like me is she testing me Or am I wasting my time. Any feedback would be helpful I really like her but i dont know if she is messing with me or playing hard to get.
Merin Posted December 11, 2004 Posted December 11, 2004 Sounds like shes all about flirting with you.. but if she blew you off both times the 2 of you had plans it doesn't say good things about a genuine interest in actually dating you.. I'm sorry. If you really like her that much then ask her out a 3rd time.. but if she blows it off again or makes excuses why she can't do it.. then I would let it go and keep looking. good luck
Author hurricane495 Posted December 12, 2004 Author Posted December 12, 2004 well she actually asked me out next saturday she said that she didnt want to consider it a raincheck date cause its just for a few drinks but does wanna go out but isnt calling it our official raincheck date.
Author hurricane495 Posted December 12, 2004 Author Posted December 12, 2004 Also we both work next friday and she suggested we have dinner Plus she has a habit to not call me on weekends I dont know if its a test to see if I can live without her or what.
Baal Posted December 12, 2004 Posted December 12, 2004 The girl enjoys the attention you are giving her. In my opinion, she wants you to continue to show her that attention. And for that reason, I would just ignore her.
Author hurricane495 Posted December 12, 2004 Author Posted December 12, 2004 thats to bad if that is the case cause she doesnt know what she could have till its gone
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