mammasita Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 So we are exclusive but don't have an official title......yet. I would really like to invite him and his daughter to my brothers for thanksgiving. It would be an overnight trip, 3 hours away (we've already spent a weekend together) As of right now, It's been slightly less than 2 months. By thanksgiving it will be almost 3 months. I'm scared its too soon since we haven't made it "official". Am I overthinking or thinking correctly. I'm so confused
2sure Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 Depends on your family. Do they usually entertain friends on thanks giving? Or is coming to Thanksgiving Dinner a family only thing?
Author mammasita Posted October 26, 2013 Author Posted October 26, 2013 Yes I've met his daughter a few times. Thanksgiving at my brothers house is a huge neighborhood thing. Friends, family, kids, games....pretty informal and fun.
OpheliaSong Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 I think it would be a nice gesture and I really don't think 3 months is too soon especially since you have met his kid.
whichwayisup Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 So we are exclusive but don't have an official title......yet. I would really like to invite him and his daughter to my brothers for thanksgiving. It would be an overnight trip, 3 hours away (we've already spent a weekend together) As of right now, It's been slightly less than 2 months. By thanksgiving it will be almost 3 months. I'm scared its too soon since we haven't made it "official". Am I overthinking or thinking correctly. I'm so confused Thanksgiving or any major holiday is not the time 'introduce' new to family. He may have traditions, and also what about his ex? Or his parents? You can discuss it with him but I would honestly make a planned trip out there to visit your bro with him and his child another time. Maybe the following weekend after Thanksgiving. Edited to add: when I said ex, I mean what if it's her turn to have their child on this holiday? Or are they on OK terms as co parents that they celebrate the holiday together for the sake of their kid?
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