shyguy1980 Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 ex gf dumped me 1 year ago now by text we was together for 4 years she found another bf in 3 months after she dumped me she followed me and contacted on twitter last week after 7 months of no contact she messaged me saying hello on twitter and said that her life is much better now and she much happier after a week i hadnt heard from her and i just felt confused why she looked for me and followed me. yesterday i unfollowed her i dont know why i now feel so stupid and childish but i didnt see any point in us keeping contact because she has a bf she also unfollowed me today and shes retweeting things like "People who create drama deserves the bs that comes with it" and "No relationship is a waste of time. The wrong ones teach you the lessons that prepare you for the right one". ive now followed her back and she hasnt followed me i feel an idiot why couldnt she have left me alone i was moving on
theonlyjuan Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 Well, she's clearly got into your head. Dumpers have a tendency to check on on their ex's after a while. My ex has contacted me a few times after I went NC and I found it annoying, I don't think they like being shut out. They never seem to understand why they don't hear from their ex and it gets up their nose when they see you doing well without them. Just forget it and go NC again, don't care about what she says about you. Next time she contacts you, stay NC
Mario79 Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 She still thinks of you. A moment of weakness. You can call it many things, unless you can read her mind you will never know. You could ask her straight up. No tweeting, no texting, just phone or in person. If it bothers you and I get it cause 4 years of your life. I would want to know. 2
Author shyguy1980 Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 (edited) ur right i think i need to go nc again but i followed her again on twitter i should have just left it what do u think i should do now. it was stupid i think re following her its just gonna boost her ego Edited October 25, 2013 by shyguy1980
Author shyguy1980 Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 i will thank u girls are strange they treat us this way and dump us and still expect to walk in and out of are life's when they please i feel sorry for there boyfriends now
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