Simon Phoenix Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 so i want to defend myself from what some of the things my ex told me. when she told me she left because i didn't give 100%. we were both at a stage of our relationship, where we faced a period of adjustment. i couldn't give my all because it was rocky. but since we were apart, i've accepted change and was willing to grow. i wanted to keep moving forward, look through the windshield and not through the rear view mirror. Don't do it. She's not going to all of a sudden see things your way. Let sleeping dogs lie. However, I'm guessing you want to argue with her because you think you can get her back.
Author Bandito Posted October 27, 2013 Author Posted October 27, 2013 Don't do it. She's not going to all of a sudden see things your way. Let sleeping dogs lie. However, I'm guessing you want to argue with her because you think you can get her back. i said, i'm going to put it out on her, rather than argue with her. i just want to know if i have a valid point or i'm wrong.
reddragon588 Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 so i want to defend myself from what some of the things my ex told me. when she told me she left because i didn't give 100%. we were both at a stage of our relationship, where we faced a period of adjustment. i couldn't give my all because it was rocky. but since we were apart, i've accepted change and was willing to grow. i wanted to keep moving forward, look through the windshield and not through the rear view mirror. Way to go on posting here instead of contacting her! That is a great step. You're starting a new chapter of your life. Some of the characters from previous chapters might show up (i.e. your ex), but you need to focus on starting the new chapter, and not re-reading the last chapter. If she works her way in, that's great, but rehashing the past won't do you any good. 1
Author Bandito Posted October 27, 2013 Author Posted October 27, 2013 Way to go on posting here instead of contacting her! That is a great step. You're starting a new chapter of your life. Some of the characters from previous chapters might show up (i.e. your ex), but you need to focus on starting the new chapter, and not re-reading the last chapter. If she works her way in, that's great, but rehashing the past won't do you any good. i know, you're right. when we talked, i didn't want to talk about the past at all. she's the one who is looking at who i WAS, and not for who i am now. i wanted to tell her how i've grown and the lessons i've learned but, her wanting to rehash the past, got me in attack mode again.
h0000 Posted October 28, 2013 Posted October 28, 2013 i know, you're right. when we talked, i didn't want to talk about the past at all. she's the one who is looking at who i WAS, and not for who i am now. i wanted to tell her how i've grown and the lessons i've learned but, her wanting to rehash the past, got me in attack mode again. you have grown? lessons have learnt? then you should not want to talk to her again. I think you just grew from glue to super glue. she just can't get rid of you. im surprised she hasnt run to another state yet. You know, people here are so nice to give you advices so patiently you just don't listen and don't appreciate them . Wait till you drive all them crazy and no one will want to help you anymore. all the pain you been through, you asked for it. you deserve it. no sympathy for you.
Author Bandito Posted October 28, 2013 Author Posted October 28, 2013 you have grown? lessons have learnt? then you should not want to talk to her again. I think you just grew from glue to super glue. she just can't get rid of you. im surprised she hasnt run to another state yet. You know, people here are so nice to give you advices so patiently you just don't listen and don't appreciate them . Wait till you drive all them crazy and no one will want to help you anymore. all the pain you been through, you asked for it. you deserve it. no sympathy for you. you know, you're a real dick when i comes to helping ppl. don't kick someone when they're already down. 1
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