jaguar Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 Hey guys, I am a total newbie to dating, am a 30 year old virgin. In my culture, dating wasn't common. What now? I am trying to be as social as possible but I am panicking a little bit. I am going to be 30 in a few months so I am just absolutely panicking. I am already getting scenes from 40 year old virgin in my head. I am already attending some events where people meet and so on but somehow I am not sure how to get going with the whole dating thing. Ultimately I am not sure how women are going to react when they hear that I am a 30 year old virgin. Any advice?
Eivuwan Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 What is your cultural background and where are you trying to date now?
headinthecloud Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 Understand that sex for woman is more emotional than it is for men. At 30, yes its uncommon for men to be virgins but it's fine. The right woman won't care and will show you how great it can be. At this point you've probably built it up in your head as this pinnacle, but it's not. The trick is don't be shy about sex. Read Dan Savage's sex advice blog/column, he'll give some interesting perspective on sex.
Author jaguar Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 What is your cultural background and where are you trying to date now? I am from India and I am now in Europe.
Shashasha Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 You dont have to feel bad AT all for being a virgin at 30 just because of the norm. Everyone has their own time and this shows that you take sex seriously. I personally would be very turned on by a guy who hasnt had sex! regarding the dating, you have to let these things flow and you cant force it... Time will tell..
crederer Posted October 26, 2013 Posted October 26, 2013 Well....you referenced 40 year old virgin. It worked out pretty well for him in the end. Keep that in mind! 1
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