Jc12345 Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 Its been a month since I've talked to my ex. Over this time I've realized how terrible she was to me and her recent contact proves it. She wants gifts she bought me back from holidays and birthdays in exchange for a necklace she called cheap and left at my house. She also has many gifts I've got her but in my eyes its not worth getting them back just so I can avoid ever talking to her again. Should I just ignore her?
Jiminy Cricket Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 sounds familiar. read my threads and ignore her.
Zahara Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 Its been a month since I've talked to my ex. Over this time I've realized how terrible she was to me and her recent contact proves it. She wants gifts she bought me back from holidays and birthdays in exchange for a necklace she called cheap and left at my house. She also has many gifts I've got her but in my eyes its not worth getting them back just so I can avoid ever talking to her again. Should I just ignore her? Yes, just ignore. Block her if possible. People that behave this way are just vindictive. Plus, they were gifts. She has no right to them or to ask for them back. 1
barky2 Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 " oh those gifts you gave me? You want them? They've been in the trash for a few weeks now, deuces" would be my reply. Or A simple ignore and a smile on your face knowing this is her last ditch effort of seeing if she still has control over you,that you'll come running just to see her. This is about her, all her. Ignore. Barky 1
Author Jc12345 Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 Even demanded I drop them off. Lol wow. I wanted to say send your boyfriend to come get them. So glad I've grown enough just to let things go. It isn't normal for your girlfriend to insult your gifts saying they aren't enough is it?
Zahara Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 Even demanded I drop them off. Lol wow. I wanted to say send your boyfriend to come get them. So glad I've grown enough just to let things go. It isn't normal for your girlfriend to insult your gifts saying they aren't enough is it? I had a boyfriend that thought buying me a case of beer everytime he hit the grocery store was thoughtful! And I hardly ever drink. Imagine the gifts he bought me! Oh, yes, there weren't any. If she insults your gifts, then it speaks as to who she is. She had no problem accepting them when she was with you but now it's a problem. F her. Let it go. Block her to keep your sanity. 1
ConstantVoyager Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 Legally and ethically, they are your property. But, it's possible that giving them back will at least get her out of your life. Although, she may just come up with another ploy for contact. I'd just ignore her and see if she loses interest. Do keep a record of her requests in the off chance that your place is broken into and the stuff is taken.
Author Jc12345 Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 On valentines day which is also my birthday I got her a nice purse,perfumes and Lotions and a nice hotel room and she looked me in the eye and said is that it?
Author Jc12345 Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 I'm 23 and she's 24. In no way am I shaping my story to make me seem good. It is very young and immature I know.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 Ignore her and get rid of whatever you have. Done and Done 1
KathyM Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 I'd suggest you keep the stuff and use it. It belongs to you. She has no right to it. Tell her these were gifts and are no longer her property. Then, as other posters suggested, block her number, her Emails, her FB, and don't answer the door if she comes by. Not worth your time in talking to her.
Zahara Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 On valentines day which is also my birthday I got her a nice purse,perfumes and Lotions and a nice hotel room and she looked me in the eye and said is that it? ??? What a tool. Ignore her. 1
Author Jc12345 Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 I am. No contact works wonders. In my other thread I stated how she used a tablet I bought her for Christmas to send naked pictures to another guy. Never once would I consider asking her for it back. Plus countless other things.
Author Jc12345 Posted October 30, 2013 Author Posted October 30, 2013 Just recieved a threat of calling the police and how I was her only problem and how amazing the new guy is and she's always loved him over me. People are crazy.
reddragon588 Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 The police would laugh her off. If her new guy is so amazing why does she keep bothering you? She is just projecting. 1
aybc123 Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Ignore her, they're your property so the police can't do anything and will laugh in her face. She's desperate to hurt you so just ignore her, it will have a far greater impact than anything else you could say to her. You could always preempt her and go to the police yourself, say your crazy ex is demanding gifts back that belong to you and wont stop harassing you. It'll get put on file then so that if she goes to them and says you stole all of her **** they'll know whats up straight away and not come pay you an unpleasant visit before you can sort it out. 1
Stealth3 Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 just seriously go to her door and break all that **** in front of her or burn them all and take a picture and send it to her. What a dumb bitch....or tell her to send her bf to get it and if he shows up give him a bloddy nose for daring to show up....or break the gifts on his face....so many ideas:laugh: You could have fun and be creative
boo700gs Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 What the **** she's going bonkers....sounds like my ex. The super-entitled cheating bitch who plays the victim card. I will never understand the desperation of these vultures who try to pick at the dead heart they left behind.
Author Jc12345 Posted October 31, 2013 Author Posted October 31, 2013 Great ideas stealth. I told her to send him over. Reply was he's amazing lol. If only life gave us a reset button.
ScienceGal Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 Great ideas stealth. I told her to send him over. Reply was he's amazing lol. If only life gave us a reset button. If you're engaging in mini spats (e.g. game playing), you're no better than she is. The correct response is to get on with your life and ignore her until she goes away. 1
Salvatore85 Posted October 31, 2013 Posted October 31, 2013 On valentines day which is also my birthday I got her a nice purse,perfumes and Lotions and a nice hotel room and she looked me in the eye and said is that it? I stood in line for two hours waiting for $80 worth of sushi on valentines day for my ex...we ate the sushi and then she dumped me that night. Yep you read that right. Dumped me after 5 years together on valentines day lol. 1
Author Jc12345 Posted October 31, 2013 Author Posted October 31, 2013 That's crazy man. I always outdid myself on valentines day and it was never enough. I didn't want to reply to her but when I was woken up at 2 am I couldn't help but flip out.
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