bbymoma22 Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 so my baby daddy and I have been separated for about 3 years now..hes been in a relationship with this other lady ..... who has 3 kids..he moves moutains for them ....and barely sees my kids ..im so confused ,mad,hurt and torn because just when im doing fine he comes back around ....he made a fake fb and sent em messages through it saying how he misses me and the kids and he prays for us daily ..and I make him think twice about being with us ...idk what to do ..we were fooling around for about a year now or so behind her back ,im was stupid and as loyal to him as could be ......he made all these promises to leave her and he just didn't want to hurt her like that too fast he wanted to let her go in his own way ..but it never happened ..... now months later after she found out about me and him he quit messing with me and now hes at it again ..I just don't know fi he really loves me and wants our family together or what ..I know most people tell me its cause he doesn't want the responsibility of our babies but we only have two a 4 yr old and a 2 year old ...the other girl he lives with has 3...and he takes me to school bought them a 4wheeler and everything ..im just so confused I don't know what to do or even think about it can somebody please give me insight
Balzac Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 How many children do you have with this man? How old are the children?
mammasita Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 First of all - he will only do what you allow him to do. Secondly - I don't think he's worth your time as a partner. Allow him to be a part of your childrens lives and please don't use them as pawns or tools against him. If he fails or defaults on his obligations thats HIS fault not yours. Don't let him fill your head with promises of a future. He's a liar and a cheater! 1
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