athiria Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 (edited) So we were together for 6 months, the first time was fantastic, he told me he loved me early on and we hanged out every day. Then he changed (got into depression or something) and drama entered the relationship. I wanted to break up with him to protect myself but he got me to stay in the relationship. Anyway, then he broke up with me. I said I didn't want any contact anymore with him but he said he really cared for me and wanted to stay friends. We go to the same school and after summer it ended I noticed he was affected by the fact that I didn't speak to him, so we went lunching for one week and he did some behaviours that almost made me think he wanted me back - he touched my nose for example. Then I said to him it was hard for me to be friends because I was still in love with him and he said "It is over", but I was very welcome to contact him when I had no feelings anymore. So I decided, stupidly or not, to try to be friends. So I said hi to him, and met up with him 2 times after school trying to keep the relationship kind of shallow, being all happy and cheerful. Sometimes I couldnt handle him so I ignored him sometimes and he started to ignore me. Then I felt like, hey, I have to gain controll over this in some way, I said I wanted to be friends with him and he say OK. Then he continued ignoring me. I got tired of it and asked him "I need an honest answer, you dont want to be friends right?!" and he said yes but that he wanted time alone to think things through by himself, that I was giving him no space and that if he wanted something he would contact ME - not the other way around. Then he said something really strange "And you haven't even called be ONCE to ask if I'm OK!" (In the sentence right after). So I decided to back off, I didn't contact him in any way in school for 1,5 weeks but yesterday at a school dinner he was saying hi, smiling and waving his hand. I just... ignored him xD I couldn't handle saying hi to him. Then he gave me a look that was kindof sad later :S I mean I get it if he doesn't want to be with me. But when he says things like "you havent even called me", it makes me very confused. And I'm absolutely not over him to be honest, but the fact that he isnt crystal clear he doesn't have any emotional attachments to me makes it very hard. Please, give me some advice. Edited October 25, 2013 by athiria
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