894hjk Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 I've been seeing a guy for 3 months, it was going well. He's met my son and spent time with him. He said he loved me during sex and I laughed it off last week. This week he asked me if I loved him, I threw the question straight back to him and he smiled and went quiet threw the question back to me and I said sternly "no I don't I've only known u 5 minutes. Not sure how he took it. He came over the following evening and was quiet all night and said he didn't want to stay over (for the first time ever) as he felt he was living here at the moment. I was cool about it. The next eve he i didn't hear from him and on his Facebook he stated that he had a few girls after him at present. This has obviously pissed me right off and he tends to maintain a single man appearance on fb and I feel he's keeping his options open on there. We r supposed to be going out tonight, shall I quit this whole thing? I have feelings for him and show it through my actions towards him. Thanks
forgetmenot75 Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 You playing games or what? He asked if you love him and you said no. What is that you're expecting now? He must feel hurt by the way you acted. How old are you? 1
madjac74 Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 He was hurt so he manned up by posting on Facebook that he has several girls chasing after him. I am guessing they are in their teens especially since love was brought up after 3 months!!
Sunshine87 Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 He felt slighted because you didn't tell him you loved him. This is why he didn't stay over at yours. His Facebook status is an attempt to make you jealous. Do you like him? Would you consider him to be a good man? If so, go out with him. He is just reacting to the perceived rejection. 2
myothernic2 Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 I've been seeing a guy for 3 months, it was going well. He's met my son and spent time with him. He said he loved me during sex and I laughed it off last week. This week he asked me if I loved him, I threw the question straight back to him and he smiled and went quiet threw the question back to me and I said sternly "no I don't I've only known u 5 minutes. Not sure how he took it. He came over the following evening and was quiet all night and said he didn't want to stay over (for the first time ever) as he felt he was living here at the moment. I was cool about it. The next eve he i didn't hear from him and on his Facebook he stated that he had a few girls after him at present. This has obviously pissed me right off and he tends to maintain a single man appearance on fb and I feel he's keeping his options open on there. We r supposed to be going out tonight, shall I quit this whole thing? I have feelings for him and show it through my actions towards him. Thanks Couldn't you have explained your present feelings better than to had been so cold about it?
Author 894hjk Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 I f****d up. I have strong feelings for him and it scares the hell out of me as I lost my parents/step siblings and fiancée in my 20s and don't wanna revisit anymore of those feeling if it goes wrong.
Mascara Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 You're BOTH playing games. I understand why, but one of you needs to cut it out, sit the other down and just clear the air.
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