HeartBroken1988 Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 She was the love of my life, how could she cheated, lied and left me with no explication like our 2 years relationship didn't meant anything to her? It's been almost 5 months and I'm feeling more depressed than ever.. I'm thinking about her all the time eventhough she hurt me so bad I can't let go. I'm waiting for a sign from her and yet I just want to forget her. what's wrong with me? I wish I'd never met her.
Fufu Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 I know it's super depressing and frustrating at the same time when a person you really loved did such horrible thing to you. However, this is the time you gain control of your life and start to tell yourself it's totally not worth it to think about her anymore. Why are you suffering emotionally when the other person doesn't even care about what you feel.
Author HeartBroken1988 Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 I know it's super depressing and frustrating at the same time when a person you really loved did such horrible thing to you. However, this is the time you gain control of your life and start to tell yourself it's totally not worth it to think about her anymore. Why are you suffering emotionally when the other person doesn't even care about what you feel. That's exactly the question i'm asking myself, why would I even care if she doesn't? I think the problem lies deep inside me I guess..
headinthecloud Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 That's exactly the question i'm asking myself, why would I even care if she doesn't? I think the problem lies deep inside me I guess.. I don't want to sound harsh but you need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and accept that it's over. She is out there living life and not thinking of you. You should do the same. Be resilient. Rebuild your self esteem. Do not define your "loveableness" based on her - she is dead to you now. 1
barky2 Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 Honestly 5-6 month mark is the hardest, because you've been holding on to some kind of hope,and now it's a realization that it's truly time to let go. Keep pushing forward , allow yourself to let go. You will get thru this, I promise you that. And sooner than later you will be one of the posters that come back and say "if I can do it anyone can!" You'll get there. Barky 1
Chi townD Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 Someone on here once wrote, it's just as hard to let them go as it is to hold on to them. Dude, time to let go. Time to open up a new chapter in your life. Time to move forward. There's a whole world out there with adventures to be had. Go explore them.
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