Stay Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 So my gf of 7 years basically cheated on me emotionally and broke up with me for the other guy. It's been about 4 months since we've split physically. We have a mutual friend, more of my friend but apparently she might be at this dinner, how do you feel is the best choice? I really don't want to see her because of what she did to me. I don't want anything to do with her but I'm just trying to think in a different way instead of exactly how I feel. I wanna see other perspectives on this situation. What would you do? Go or don't go?
ColdAlone Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 I would just go and try not to act out on my potential feelings of being hurt or angry. Try and be civil. If I would accomplish that I would consider it personal growth.
Author Stay Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 As in being hurt or angry, I might be slightly hurt still by what happened but I know I'm better off, I can flirt with whoever and whenever I want now. It feels so good to just enjoy things. I honestly don't know what to do, should I even say hi or just ignore her? I just feel like anything I do will cause some reaction, if I say hi she'll think something, who knows what. If I don't say anything she'll also think I hate her, etc. etc.
ColdAlone Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 Be civil... anything might cause a reaction, doing nothing might even cause a reaction. Thing is, you are not responsable for that reaction or what she thinks
forgetmenot75 Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 Yeah. Just go, say hello to your ex, don't engage in conversation, keep t shot and sweet, and enjoy the dinner with your friend. Try to ignore your ex, talk to someone else instead, someone more interesting than that bitch 1
Author Stay Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 Yeah. Just go, say hello to your ex, don't engage in conversation, keep t shot and sweet, and enjoy the dinner with your friend. Try to ignore your ex, talk to someone else instead, someone more interesting than that bitch Haha thanks, I know I can't avoid her my whole life but I'm not really sure how to go about it that was all. I don't want to avoid it and seem like I'm not over her or something. But it seems like the majority of people says just go. I've immediately transformed myself as soon as she broke up with me, hit the gym, and keeping busy so I feel better than ever.
Author Stay Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 Be civil... anything might cause a reaction, doing nothing might even cause a reaction. Thing is, you are not responsable for that reaction or what she thinks You're right, the last time we talked after we broke up she still bitch about small things. I've always been calm and civil but if things doesn't go her way she'll act up. I just ignored it, same as I will always do if she starts again.
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