Gisss Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 We were so happy until today when we were at his place and his wife arrived. She kissed him and I got very jealous (she knows about me and I know about her)... I left his house very angry and he called me all day and sent a lot, really lot of messages to me. I was sure I didn't want to see him again anymore but then I saw him and everything changed. We were talking and he said "ok if that's what you want...". I left his car again very angry. When I got home I started to cry a lot and called him and sent him thousands of messages. He answered and said "I love you a lot I'm going to bed now" and end of story. I'm desperate! I feel guilty for not answering his calls throughout the day and I think I lost him
whichwayisup Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 I think if you're going to stay in this situation, you need to accept that you're sharing him with his wife, and accept your role as his OW and try not to feel jealous or hurt that he is splitting his time up between you two, that he is affectionate and intimate with you both. Seems to me you are having a real hard time with this, so ask yourself some questions. Are you truly happy? You love him but is this love healthy for you? Is sharing him with his wife doing damage to your self esteem? Do you want children of your own one day? A family, a home, your own husband? IF you stay with him, you won't have kids or your own family alone with him. Seems they aren't divorcing and totally fine with how things are. You aren't OK with it. 1
lollipopspot Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 I don't exactly understand this situation. But I don't know - maybe read up on how those mormon "sister wives" deal with polygamy, because it seems like that's about what you've got.
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