priaz Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 I've become really good friends with some of my med school classmates. We hang out quite a lot. On monday, we went out to dinner, and they suddenly brought up setting me up with one of the med students in our class that was also in our circle of friends. They asked if i would ever go out with (insert name here) I told them i don't know because i never thought about it and we don't talk much, since he's really quiet. My friends then got sad, which I thought was weird. One of my friends brought it up before last year, but i didn't think much of it. Now... i'm suspecting something is up....I asked them why they were asking me this, but they said they're just wondering. They kept pressing the issue at dinner, so i'm thinking something's up. Why are they messing with me?
todreaminblue Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 I dotn think they are messing with you at all......normally when people mess with you it is malicious and when its malicious they dont get sad or invest in you and your happiness...... they guy has told them he likes you(this is a guess) sounds like to me, he maybe wrapped in you...they see potential for a happy union and they are trying to make it happen.... there is nothing that true friends like more......to see other friends happy..... .....and if those friends are mutual friends happy together...smilin.....that is a bonus i guess......good luck....dont think they are messing with you at all...setting up blind dates with guys they have no idea of or what their values and ideals are...thats a mess....if you care about soemone you dont set them up with people you dont know....its not thoughtful..possibly dangerous..deb 1
Author priaz Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 i don't see it. Why/how would he like me? We hardly even talk. He's a really quiet guy.
todreaminblue Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 i don't see it. Why/how would he like me? We hardly even talk. He's a really quiet guy. some guys dont express how they feel, maybe he has noticed you more than you think he does, he may have interest in you or your friends know him, they know you and they have matched you on your personalities,I dont think they are messing with you ....i wish you well...deb
Author priaz Posted October 26, 2013 Author Posted October 26, 2013 i just don't understand...why me? We hardly even talk. How does that even happen?
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