How many sexual partners are too many?

[samsungxoxo]

Don't look now, but your hatred and bigotry is showing. And I believe that no woman is attracted to that, particularly the type you seek.

This. I don't like the part in which they used an experienced woman as a toy for a ONS or FWB but quickly discard her as garbage or string her along (not taking into considering that she can have feelings too) while he is freely preying on innocent women, trying to convince them to marry him. That woman he had sex with is a human being too.

 

This is what I'm so leery about those types of men: suppose I were to stupidly accept a sloot shammer while he's one of those reformed players into classifying women. What if for whatever reason, the relationship doesn't work out and we break up?? Is he going to brag to his friends and others that I was just another woman added to his number??? That I'm also worthless and find other excuses to degrade me?? What else is he going to say about me if he were upset about the break-up??? More than likely, he's going to revert back to his lifestyle while I was just another temporarily toy. No thanks

 

If he is stringing along other women with experience or those he doesn't like as well as insulting them, how different is it going to be with me??? He is probably going to find other reasons to see negative aspects about me.

Edited November 6, 2013 by samsungxoxo

[ThaWholigan]

I lost my virginity to a girl who was well into the double digits, and also had a sexual relationship with a girl just shy of that. The only reason why I didn't consider a relationship with either of them had nothing to do with the number of partners I had. I'm almost sure that any girl I sleep with has had "some dude inside of them", so not wanting to be that guy is inconsequential - unless you marry a virgin, you are that guy who's f*cking someone who got f*cked by somebody else, who also f*cked somebody and so on and so forth.

 

I don't have a set number on what I feel is too many - the number isn't necessarily as important as the story behind the number. I'd rather wife a "slut" who never cheated than a girl with a low-number who did.

 

I don't really advocate lying about your history either, but if you don't wish to disclose it then that is fine. At the end of the day, whoever disapproves or thinks it's nasty can eat a dick . Just make sure that you don't do anything that you would feel ashamed of later - if you worry that you will feel shame about your sexual exploits, then don't do it. If you just naturally embrace it, then do what you're doing.