SarahJames Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I think in love, and especially being the OW, we often confuse whether we love someone or we love how they make us feel. What is love? I thought about my ex-MM and how I felt about him. I hated how he made me feel. I felt like a side-dish. However...I loved his personality and his characteristics. I thought he had such a unique, lively, just all-around great personality. I was almost jealous of him. I think I even wished I was him. Is this love? Am I crazy?
goodyblue Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 With me, I did like how I felt when I was with him, but I also really liked who he was as a person, I liked that he had integrity (I don't want to hear that he doesn't from BS's either), I loved his intelligence, I loved his charm. Charisma, kindness toward others, parenting skills. A million other things. And the fact that he knows how to love me in the right ways, and allows me to love him right back, well, it kind of sealed the deal for us.
Assasda Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 It isnt love. Lust yes. Its what you feel when you are a side-dish, which you were just being blunt
goodyblue Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 It isnt love. Lust yes. Its what you feel when you are a side-dish, which you were just being blunt I never was the side dish. As soon as we became involved, his ex became the side dish, and then became a non entity when he left.
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