Rabi3 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 (edited) I will update this everytime something new happen untill we get back together.. I won't quit on, I've went on a no-contact for 2.5 months,deleting all possible contact, getting rid of everything she gave me.. but now I wanna win her back.. signs everywhere that she's messing me here's some of them: 1. She constantly checks my fb profile. 2. 1 month into our breakout, she uploaded a pic "The worst thing is you already belong to someone else" 3. 2 months into our breakout, the day after I wrote with her, she uploaded another pic "All I want is you" 4. She liked a facebook page; "I act like I hate you, but all I wanne be is in your arms once more" (Biggest sign so far) <- She broke up with me btw. 5. She has never been into bodybuilding, fitness and such, but ever since we broke up, she started liking bodybuilding facebook sites, motivational videos, and she knows how much I love bodybuilding. 6. She's talks about me with her friends about how good I am in bed. (Not boasting) Everytime I write to her she acts freaking hard to get, I mean when I ask her whats she's doing, she asks me back, probably just being nice. But other than that she's totally acting hard to get. I ask here recently if she wanted to meet up, forgot the past, live in the now, she responded with that it was difficult for her, and that's she not ready yet. I've waited 3 days now, still no responds, I'm gonna ask for a honest answer here in 4-5 days. Is she acting hard to get, or just not interested? How did we break up? I was an idiot, I had no idea how to be a boyfriend, literally she was my first gf.. I started fights, though I never yelled at her, I was jealous.. but I have learned from my mistakes, reading eBooks on how to improve. And I certainly have gotten more mature. Edited October 24, 2013 by Rabi3
melell Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I am confused. You were in no contact but you could still see everything she was doing on facebook? How do you know she checks your profile? How do you know her posts are directed at you? If she wanted you, you would know it. Writing to her is not the way to go. You can be friendly to her sure -if that is the way you want to go. But really, she needs to come to you. From what you have said my opinion is that she is not interested in you. And that you haven't really been in nc, instead you have been keeping tabs? 3
Assasda Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I think you'll have a better chance if she contacts you, instead of you hunting her down like a litttle puppy. Living on her every facebook post. She's living your life for you. Its about time you live your own life
Author Rabi3 Posted October 24, 2013 Author Posted October 24, 2013 I think you'll have a better chance if she contacts you, instead of you hunting her down like a litttle puppy. Living on her every facebook post. She's living your life for you. Its about time you live your own life I am confused. You were in no contact but you could still see everything she was doing on facebook? How do you know she checks your profile? How do you know her posts are directed at you? If she wanted you, you would know it. Writing to her is not the way to go. You can be friendly to her sure -if that is the way you want to go. But really, she needs to come to you. From what you have said my opinion is that she is not interested in you. And that you haven't really been in nc, instead you have been keeping tabs? All of the above things happened after I added her on facebook, which were after 2.5 months, I checked her pictures on instagram and noticed the things she wrote. I didn't keep in "tabs" with her because I know I feel like crap if I checked her profile or such. My friend and I have found 3 different methods on how to see who checks your profile more often, and all of them leads to her.
Romaks Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 So why'd she break up with you in the first place?
Author Rabi3 Posted October 24, 2013 Author Posted October 24, 2013 So why'd she break up with you in the first place? I was jealous, in a week I started fights like 3-5 times. But I have always been loyal and honest to her. But though during the fights, I never yelled or even cursed at her. Also stated above.
melell Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 I just haven't come across any situations where the dumpee succeeds in winning the ex back through contact. It always seems to lead to reconciliation only when the dumper fights to get the dumpee back. I think perhaps 2.5 months was not enough nc for you to let your emotions move away from this. I know for me it certainly took a good 3 months before the emotions completely died down. To me if you are in the position where you want to fight for it, then you usually are emotionally charged. I could be wrong though. You need to be careful when looking at what she says and what she is up to, it really has potential to suck you back in and mess with you- even though you had that time of nc. ???? Really curious, how do you know she checks your facebook profile? I didn't think there was a way to monitor that? I kinda thought facebook purposely made it so you couldn't do that- to keep it popular with all the social stalkers and all 5
boo700gs Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 All of the above things happened after I added her on facebook, which were after 2.5 months, I checked her pictures on instagram and noticed the things she wrote. I didn't keep in "tabs" with her because I know I feel like crap if I checked her profile or such. My friend and I have found 3 different methods on how to see who checks your profile more often, and all of them leads to her. Curious about these methods tbh.. 1
Sugarkane Posted October 30, 2013 Posted October 30, 2013 Where/ what are these methods for finding out who looks at your profile? Have never heard of any legit ones.
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