mendsley Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I recognize I'm a little depressed and I'm trying to work through it. I can see a difference in my thought process... meaning I have accepted and am commited to NOT going back to my ex... so I can check that off my list. I miss the time together, the sex, her innocence, her love for me, the times she would make me laugh and how we planned our future together. I dont miss how she wanted to be a bitch to everyone, selfish she is, she would always cut people off to one up them, she was a pill popper, she ALWAYS was sick, how her life was harder than mine and how much drama she thrived on. I guess part of this is process is flushing her out of my system... love is truly a chemical dependency. Its only been a few weeks since we split - 2.5 year relationship - and obviously I want to process the emotions in the most efficient way possible. I'm easy on the eyes for women so getting some no-strings attached sex would be fairly easy. When I was going through my divorce about five years ago I was struggling with everything. But, as soon as I started getting laid my confidence went through the roof and I got out of my rut VERY fast. With only two weeks and her still on my mind, would it be smart to hook-up (NSA)?
Lost_Dragon Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I recognize I'm a little depressed and I'm trying to work through it. I can see a difference in my thought process... meaning I have accepted and am commited to NOT going back to my ex... so I can check that off my list. I miss the time together, the sex, her innocence, her love for me, the times she would make me laugh and how we planned our future together. I dont miss how she wanted to be a bitch to everyone, selfish she is, she would always cut people off to one up them, she was a pill popper, she ALWAYS was sick, how her life was harder than mine and how much drama she thrived on. I guess part of this is process is flushing her out of my system... love is truly a chemical dependency. Its only been a few weeks since we split - 2.5 year relationship - and obviously I want to process the emotions in the most efficient way possible. I'm easy on the eyes for women so getting some no-strings attached sex would be fairly easy. When I was going through my divorce about five years ago I was struggling with everything. But, as soon as I started getting laid my confidence went through the roof and I got out of my rut VERY fast. With only two weeks and her still on my mind, would it be smart to hook-up (NSA)? It is still only sex. You can't replace love with sex. Either way.. If you feel that will help your progress then that is on you. I used to try that but it was just meaningless sex. I still had a hole in my heart. Find a real connection and don't forget to be safe. I would stay away from drug addicts. Are you on drugs? If not then why date one? If you are then you need help with that before you worry about love. I'm sorry.. but too many factors in there to spell disaster. I hope someone else can give you better advice.
Author mendsley Posted October 24, 2013 Author Posted October 24, 2013 Thank you for the reply, she was sick with everything under the sun. So thats how she justified taking so many pills. I dont do any drugs, smoke, and currently no drinking. I guess im looking for a quick fix to the pain and the only way is getting her out of my head and keeping cool :-)
TylerDurdenn Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Just focus on the negatives of the relationship, the positives are irrelevant now.
Lost_Dragon Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Thank you for the reply, she was sick with everything under the sun. So thats how she justified taking so many pills. I dont do any drugs, smoke, and currently no drinking. I guess im looking for a quick fix to the pain and the only way is getting her out of my head and keeping cool :-) Don't mistake a quick fix for a quick mistake. Nothing wrong with casual sex. Be true to yourself!
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