Mediocreatitsworst Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I got out of a bad long relationship about a year ago. It seems like every guy i date wants to be exclusive and I don't want that. I just want to be free and enjoy this time period in my life. I'm currently talking to 2 guys who want to hang out constantly and gets mad when I bail or can't hang out. I like them both its just alot on me right now. What should I do
Philosoraptor Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 They aren't looking for the same thing you are so let them know you aren't looking for something serious. If they continue to get mad after that then ditch them. Or better yet, ditch them now as anger has no place in a budding relationship.
Kate9292 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 If they don't like that there's someone else in the picture, they aren't guys for you. I've been like that for a while. 1
mortensorchid Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I agree. Don't bother with those two who get angry with you if you aren't living up to their wants/needs. YOu will never make them happy so move on from them.
Author Mediocreatitsworst Posted October 24, 2013 Author Posted October 24, 2013 Thanks guys. Hard truth lol but it is true sadly to say
tlegend Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I got out of a bad long relationship about a year ago. It seems like every guy i date wants to be exclusive and I don't want that. I just want to be free and enjoy this time period in my life. I'm currently talking to 2 guys who want to hang out constantly and gets mad when I bail or can't hang out. I like them both its just alot on me right now. What should I do Don't lead them on. Tell them you are not looking for a relationship. Don't "hint" that "maybe" it will happen. Don't make plans and then bail. That is just rude. You are affecting other people's lives by having them rearrange THEIR plans in order to hang out with you, and when you bail (multiple times), it really sucks. Cancellations happen, everyone understands life happens. But if you continuously bail on them, (can't hang out is another matter), it's like having a friend you never want to hang out with because you don't know if your plans that you made will actually hold up. Having to always have a plan B when scheduling a time to hang out with you is both tiresome, and stupid. But if they both want you exclusively, and you have told them both you do not want that, then maybe you just need to let them both go as they are obviously clinging onto something you DON'T want.
Assasda Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I got out of a bad long relationship about a year ago. It seems like every guy i date wants to be exclusive and I don't want that. I just want to be free and enjoy this time period in my life. I'm currently talking to 2 guys who want to hang out constantly and gets mad when I bail or can't hang out. I like them both its just alot on me right now. What should I do Keep on doing what youre doing.
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