Mediocreatitsworst Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Hey! So to keep a long story not so long. There's a guy that I used to work with. He was the manager of LP where I worked. I wasn't attracted to him at first but it grew on me. I started becoming interested in him because he's different. He's stubborn seems boring and really funny when he's being serious. I'm 20 and my friend says he's 28. I think he knew I liked him because I always asked if he closed and I would talk to my friend about him. He would come up to our depart trying to help with LP stuff but never made a moved. I asked him one day y is he so up tight and angry. He laughs which is rare and said he's not like that outside of work. We talked again n I asked if he was moving for work and he said no why I said just curious but don't leave. He just smiled and said he'd been here for a while. I never been attracted to an older guy this much. I noticed everything about him. I would notice him in a new shirt and when he got a cut even though he's bald haha Oh and did I mention he lives like a block down the at from me! Should I make a move or should I just let it go. I never c him because I don't work there anymore and he stays in the house all the time. His truck is always outside lol Should I leave a note on his windshield? Maybe like a little cute note saying like I adore u matt and I really hate to write a letter but I never see u anymore. ?? What should I do??? P.s. he's really quiet and barely speaks and whenever I give him a compliment he just blushes and doesn't know what to say haha
mikei880 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I'm going to play devils advocate here.... you describe this guy as: stubborn, angry, shy and seems to spend a lot of time at home. Are these traits you are looking for in a partner? Now for the dating part. Did you have some commonality? Something you both like to do? If you do, leave a note under his windshield wiper, like "hey this is*****, remember me from work? I was looking for someone to do ****** with me and thought of you. Your name, smiley face and phone #" But my gut tells me this won't be a good thing for you. I admire your assertiveness though. Good luck. 1
Author Mediocreatitsworst Posted October 24, 2013 Author Posted October 24, 2013 Thanks so much haha. And I think I'm just attracted to his passion for work I guess and the fact that he's a liner but I'm not going to do it if it's going to make me look dumb ya know lol
amaysngrace Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I think you will seem like a stalker if you leave a note on his car. Just go knock on his door. People love that!
Assasda Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 You should do it. and leave your number. It would be something nice. You could also put it in his mailbox. which would be nice 1
SincereOnlineGuy Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Older guy problems He was the manager of LP where I worked. Wait, what??? To us older guys, LP is a 33rpm
antonio1149 Posted October 25, 2013 Posted October 25, 2013 I think you will seem like a stalker if you leave a note on his car. Just go knock on his door. People love that! Umm ... I don't know about that. I don't think people like it if they're not prepared (e.g., they haven't showered, they're sloppily dressed and hair isn't combed etc.) I say do the note on the car. If he thinks you're cute, he'll be thrilled. If he's not interested, it just won't happen and you haven't lost anything. But if you don't hear anything, you won't know for sure if he got the note, so you might want to work up your nerve and just approach him in-person.
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