missymoo Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I met a guy in an online forum and I posted a thread about my personal situation which involved domestic violence. When he responded to my thread, I started to become interested in him. It was the way he responded and his intelligent and sophisticated response along with his sympathy. There were a couple of people that replied to my thread who made a mockery of me and my situation and he pulled them into line by telling them to "watch their mouth". I felt like was trying to "protect" me somehow in a weird way. Sort of like white knighting. I messaged him privately and started talking to him. We exchanged a couple of messages and then he told me he had a girlfriend. I wasn't upset but more disappointed and replied to him by saying that I think it is best we don't communicate anymore because I don't want to be responsible for any jealousy that his girlfriend could experience due to my interactions with him. He messaged me back and told me his girlfriends online user name and said that he thinks would be fine if we continue to talk. I want to talk to him but if I do, I could start developing feelings for him over time. What do you think I should do? Keep talking to him? Or just leave it? Keeping in mind I only met him a couple of days ago. So its still quite early.
Eternal Sunshine Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Was that forum LS? I am not sure why you got so invested after couple of messages....if you already feel emotionally involved then it's best not to talk to him. 1
veggirl Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Just leave it. Like ES said you are already feeling attached and all it is is a couple days of messaging. He has a gf and likely lives far, no point getting invested.
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