danac2 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I have almost two years relationship with girl that I really love. We had few breakups but we are still together. Month ago she went to study abroad and we had deal that I will come to live with here. And I came. But from first day I saw that something is wrong and very soon I found that she likes other guy (new guy in her life, student also). After much pressure she agree to tell me that it is truth, that she likes him much, but that nothing happened yet. And I trust her about it because I can see it. I was ready to go back home and to leave everything, but she tells that she loves me and want me to stay, and want to stay with me in relationship. Anyway, our relationship is much much cooler, she is giving her best to act like everything is ok, but it's not. It is almost 3 weeks and her emotion to other guy are not going away. For me it would be best to just go home and forget her, but you know when you find something in life that you think you will never find. I really love here and believe in our feature. I even told her to go to sleep with him and try it, maybe it will help in our relationship. She didn't agree. Now I'm between to live everything and go home, or to stay here and suffer waiting for things to happen. Do you have any advice?
O1981 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 not an easy situation. but i believe sometimes we have to take tough steps, why you dont try to let go for a monthat least if she is meant to be with you she will come back.maybe you are getting too emotional because she is around you and you keep thinking of all the nice time. just try to step a little away and its her turn to proof if she really wants to stay with you. its not easy i know but this is the only way.
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