Something123 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Long story short,I broke up with my ex about 2 months ago, she left me because she fell in love with another guy. Her best friend, was the person who introduced me to her, so, i had party last week and she was there, so we started talking and i got to know her, and well, i think i fell for her, for the first time since the break up i was feeling great with someone, and do not think its a rebound since i had other girls before (after the break up) and i felt nothing. I even dreamed about her, the thing is, she was very nice to me, was always looking at me and laughing at my (stupid) jokes, i was thinking to myself she was interested in me, but some guys came up and they started flirting with her and she gave the same signals to them. She is not a easy person to get, so i dont think she had any intentions with these random guys, i just dont know if she feels anything, im afraid to ask her that, or even ask her out for a coffee because of they way she can interpretate my request, she can think im just trying to reach to my ex, wich i dont. I just want some advice in what to do next. Sorry for my english and thanks in advance.
Mediocreatitsworst Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I made a pass at a guy I was talking to fiend/roomie but only because I couldn't help te feelings I had for him. So many people look at it like it's wrong and a bad thing but we can't help how we feel. The girl may not have known u felt a way about her considering u were with he best friend but if u don't want to drop hints here's what I did. Txted him one day(had his number because he used to go out with us) and said something along the lines of I know this is very inappropriate but I like u. It's so wrong on many levels but I can't help how I feel or go I'm attracted to. Sorry. Then he txted me back with a smiley face emoji and we have been txting and started hanging out a lot. We hang out and I enjoy his time. Give it a shot it may work out!
Author Something123 Posted October 24, 2013 Author Posted October 24, 2013 Gota try someting similar, i just dont want to push her away after a message like that, maybe is better to say it in person?
devilish innocent Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Ask her out for coffee. You've got nothing to lose. The worst that can happen is that she'll turn down the request. If you don't even try, then you wouldn't be going out with her anyway. If you ask, then she may say "yes". If you can approach her in person, that looks better than asking her through other methods. Good luck!
Assasda Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 You know what chicks like? They like when you hesitate they like when you second guess They like when you arnt sure of yourself They like when you just wait a long time and basically act like a girl. thats what the like
Author Something123 Posted October 25, 2013 Author Posted October 25, 2013 Yeah, true, ill do that, my only issue here is my ex thinking im trying to reach her, since she already tried to get back together, or im trying to take revenge for what she did before, wich i really dont. I get your point, thanks for your words of encouragement, they were harsh but true :b, ill try to be assertive with her.
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