haggard969 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 where they realized their mistake and came back? even if they thought the grass was greener but realized its not. or when it was a good thing they left for the feeling of ecitement. there must be some stories of people happily getting back together 1
Romaks Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Here you go man: Getting back together really does happen!
Mz_sassy_77 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 where they realized their mistake and came back? even if they thought the grass was greener but realized its not. or when it was a good thing they left for the feeling of ecitement. there must be some stories of people happily getting back together You really don't want to be thinking like this. Some people come back yeah...after a month, a year, 10 years. Holding on to hope they will is really really bad FOR YOU because you aren't moving on.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 where they realized their mistake and came back? even if they thought the grass was greener but realized its not. or when it was a good thing they left for the feeling of ecitement. there must be some stories of people happily getting back together Dude you have GOT to stop this line of thinking. The past couple of threads of yours is just streaming of false hope. You need to stop 3
Mario79 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I guess some of us just want that hope, or we just want someone to tell us what we want to hear... 1
Author haggard969 Posted October 24, 2013 Author Posted October 24, 2013 (edited) well sorry god , my situation is the worst possible situation, possible, my heart is smashed to pieces , am now sleeping on a floor, i am so exhausted from thinking that im just drained of energy, everyday at work i just wait for the day to end so i can come back n search on the internet, ive lots weight, i cant eat because i puke everything i eat, its so unbelievably unfair, i feel like killing myself not literly but, like id like to think you would understand but you dont, i didnt only get dumped, or just hit rock bottom, im in hell , i dont have anything but a vehicle and that is all. everything i built and worked for disappeared in one day, Edited October 24, 2013 by haggard969
Author haggard969 Posted October 24, 2013 Author Posted October 24, 2013 yupp so i just checked my stupid fricken email and she messaged me 2 hours ago , all it said is" is this you" WTF , i need out of this damb city,
Mario79 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 But you still exchanges messages? That shows some interest.
Author haggard969 Posted October 24, 2013 Author Posted October 24, 2013 But you still exchanges messages? That shows some interest. this has been 2 weeks i think, i didnt reply back, i know the moment i do, she will no im still there and she wont reply to my message back, shes probably just messaging me because my grandpa died, and hes in the obituary, i was hesitant to open the email, fear i would see a picture of her and her new boyfriend.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 well sorry god , my situation is the worst possible situation, possible, my heart is smashed to pieces , am now sleeping on a floor, i am so exhausted from thinking that im just drained of energy, everyday at work i just wait for the day to end so i can come back n search on the internet, ive lots weight, i cant eat because i puke everything i eat, its so unbelievably unfair, i feel like killing myself not literly but, like id like to think you would understand but you dont, i didnt only get dumped, or just hit rock bottom, im in hell , i dont have anything but a vehicle and that is all. everything i built and worked for disappeared in one day, There are kids starving to death all around the world. SEVERAL adults cannot find work currently to feed their families and are losing their houses. There are over 100 million people worldwide that are homeless RIGHT NOW. Does it suck? Yes. Is it hard? Yes. We all feel for you because we've all been there....but your situation is not the "worst possible situation" nor is it really different from ANYONE else's story on here. 1
Author haggard969 Posted October 24, 2013 Author Posted October 24, 2013 the reason why i am so depressed everyone, is because, no matter what, even tho i want her back more than anything in the world, for the first time. im listening to my brain and not my heart, because my heart is like my ex, it lies
Stealth3 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 There is always hope. What's the story behind you? Point me to a thread and ill comment. Sry, I'm using my phone, no internet yet in this new place. I'm curious because I've been like that too. The bu affected my eating and I would want to puke in the morning after being reminded. Now I'm a beck of a lot better. Had 2 dates so far, talked to at least 5 other chicks and got another date next week. I'm enjoying life and its been less than 2 months post BU. The first month has been shifty....but now I feel like its a matter of time before she realizes what she lost. I'm starting to stop caring too which is great...
Mario79 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 this has been 2 weeks i think, i didnt reply back, i know the moment i do, she will no im still there and she wont reply to my message back, shes probably just messaging me because my grandpa died, and hes in the obituary, i was hesitant to open the email, fear i would see a picture of her and her new boyfriend. Yeah that would suck. Sorry for your loss. When it rains it pours. Do you think she is that cruel, specially after a loss like that? We are here for you man. 1
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 the reason why i am so depressed everyone, is because, no matter what, even tho i want her back more than anything in the world, for the first time. im listening to my brain and not my heart, because my heart is like my ex, it lies Yeah not shocking. We've all been there. Just keep moving forward. 1
Author haggard969 Posted October 24, 2013 Author Posted October 24, 2013 There is always hope. What's the story behind you? Point me to a thread and ill comment. Sry, I'm using my phone, no internet yet in this new place. I'm curious because I've been like that too. The bu affected my eating and I would want to puke in the morning after being reminded. Now I'm a beck of a lot better. Had 2 dates so far, talked to at least 5 other chicks and got another date next week. I'm enjoying life and its been less than 2 months post BU. The first month has been shifty....but now I feel like its a matter of time before she realizes what she lost. I'm starting to stop caring too which is great... well you can eather search my user name haggard969 or http://www.loveshack.org/forums/breaking-up-reconciliation-coping/breaks-breaking-up/433828-she-left-me-someone-else-my-story i have about 8 threads, if you really want to know it all you should read them.
ColdAlone Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 the reason why i am so depressed everyone, is because, no matter what, even tho i want her back more than anything in the world, for the first time. im listening to my brain and not my heart, because my heart is like my ex, it lies Trying to rationalize what you are doing, that is your brain. Doing what you are doing however, is not. You say you lost all energy, and you're trying to get that energy out of hope. Yes, there are success stories. However when the ex has someone else, it's not likely for you to become one. Her emailing you might indeed have something to do with your grandpa. Seems no more than human to me that she might contact you, for that reason only. Depending on the relationship she had with your family.
Author haggard969 Posted October 24, 2013 Author Posted October 24, 2013 yes because i have recently gone insane
Stealth3 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 I think what you need to do for is forget about her for a second and think. Ask yourself....after all she did, do you want her back? Her coming back is the easy part, trust me. The question is....do you really want her back? I would focus on finding someone else because she didn't just leave you, she used you, she crushed you and she cheated on you. You can hope and pursue her all you want and at the end if the day you might win the chase, you might get her back...that's easy. The real fight is with yourself and unless you are honest with yourself and what you really want then its better to just give up on her and find someone else.
Bandito Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 my mom dumped my dad after 2 weeks, then got back together 5 years later. still together after 30 years. the weird thing is their story is similar to mine. i grew up in the same city and went to the same schools as my dad. and my ex grew up in the same city and went to the same schools as my mom. the stories are are a carbon copy. maybe history repeats itself with our generation and i get back with my ex after she dumped me in 5 years.
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 yes because i have recently gone insane Yeah...read that part again. I...as in YOU have recently gone insane. She hasn't made you go insane, you are doing it to yourself. All of the pain of you not sleeping, throwing up, whatever...you are doing it to yourself. When you decide that she isnt worth all of this (NO one is), then you can finally move forward.
crazybestie101 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 my mom dumped my dad after 2 weeks, then got back together 5 years later. still together after 30 years. the weird thing is their story is similar to mine. i grew up in the same city and went to the same schools as my dad. and my ex grew up in the same city and went to the same schools as my mom. the stories are are a carbon copy. maybe history repeats itself with our generation and i get back with my ex after she dumped me in 5 years. There were old days, do you really want to wait for 5 years just in hope that she will come around??? It's all destiny and not every one have same fate. 1
ColdAlone Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 There were old days, do you really want to wait for 5 years just in hope that she will come around??? It's all destiny and not every one have same fate. Old days or not. I contacted an older ex that I didn't speak to in 5 years, because current ex accused me of some traits that I thought I should check if that could be real. Guess what.... She still has feelings for me and is coming closer
almond Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 well sorry god , my situation is the worst possible situation, possible, my heart is smashed to pieces , am now sleeping on a floor, i am so exhausted from thinking that im just drained of energy, everyday at work i just wait for the day to end so i can come back n search on the internet, ive lots weight, i cant eat because i puke everything i eat, its so unbelievably unfair, i feel like killing myself not literly but, like id like to think you would understand but you dont, i didnt only get dumped, or just hit rock bottom, im in hell , i dont have anything but a vehicle and that is all. everything i built and worked for disappeared in one day, If you are suffering as much as you state, and are experiencing these symptoms, then seek professional help. No one on here can help you, and your own line of thinking will be causing you further damage. See your doctor. 1
ConfusedHumanBeing Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Old days or not. I contacted an older ex that I didn't speak to in 5 years, because current ex accused me of some traits that I thought I should check if that could be real. Guess what.... She still has feelings for me and is coming closer Yeah....going after another girl right now is a fantastic idea.....
crazybestie101 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Old days or not. I contacted an older ex that I didn't speak to in 5 years, because current ex accused me of some traits that I thought I should check if that could be real. Guess what.... She still has feelings for me and is coming closer Good for you!! But Wow 5 longgg years. I thought 1 year is enough for someone to move on finally and past all that feelings as if that person never mattered to them. But oh well .. Anyways , its not even year i moved on from ex before my current ex. He is getting married in few days. Guess what it no longer matter to me . I feel like he is just some stranger, wouldnt mind going to his wedding if invited lol
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