DownNtOut Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Its a year since we split up. But we met up once a month after as 'friends', cinema, coffee etc. Hooked up after a concert in July for a night. I asked her if she wanted to get back together. She didnt want to. I spilled my guts to her and she told me she was giving it another try with another ex. I done a months NC, she txt me to say she wud be at a festival i was goin to. We were in the same group of friends. We spent the 1st night dancing and i walked her back to her tent. Spent the next day and night together. Kissing and then spooning for the night. She told me it was so easy being with me, as in she felt comfortable to be with me. 3 day we spent in the group, no kissing. at end of festival i walked her to her car. Week later i ask her to concert in my town. She says she cant. ask her again the week after, she says yes. we have a meal and a good time at concert. afterwards i tell her i shouldnt see her anymore as i need time to get over her. she talks to me and i ask what did the festival mean. she told me she has 'never felt the way she feels when she is with me', with anyone. she said she regrets kissing me as she has a bf. i ask her if she thinks of me? she said, 'of course' she had her head in her hands telling me this. i asked her to meet me again in ten days as a friend. she said she would think about it and text me the next day. she said she wud need more time than 10 days to think about 'us'. i told asked her to text me the day after if she cud meet. she text me two days later saying she was still thinking about it i reassured her that she could take her time. now that text is 10days ago. what should i do? what is she thinking? HELP
ponchsox Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Sounds like she friend zoned you and you still wanted more. All you are doing is hurting yourself more. You need to end it and go NC. 2
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