arcwolf1991 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 (edited) Hello everyone i need some help my long distance girlfriend has been of with for a few days and tonight i said to her can you ring me and so we can sort this out she was saying that she doesn't know anymore say nothing was my fault she was saying like am a amazing and that i sound like she was crying when i told her i love her and miss her so much we have none each other for nearly 2 years and been together for nearly 2 months we live 2 hours away we see other everyone couple of weeks am just confused on whats going on in her head so she said she needs some space and needs to think about it i even asked if she still whats to see me in just other a weeks time she said she doesn't know i mean i cant control how her feelings are but surely seeing each other again would help can someone please give me some advice thank you Edited October 24, 2013 by arcwolf1991
CherryT Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 It sounds like she either met someone else or is losing interest and just doesn't know how to tell you. Long distance is hard because you miss that person so much. But after 2 months and you see each other every few weeks, it should be progressing or fizzing out... and it sounds like it's fizzing out. There's nothing much you can do other then communicate how you feel about her. If she doesn't feel the same then I'd move on and find someone who is willing to put in the effort to be in a relationship with you whether that be local or long distance. 1
justwhoiam Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 my long distance girlfriend has been of with for a few days What do you mean by she was off? Where was she? How long for? Also, how old are you both? Are you teenagers? That would explain seeing her only twice a month living just 2 hours away from each other. she said she needs some space and needs to think about it She's unsure about being with you. Clearly. can someone please give me some advice thank you Stop looking for her. Maybe she will miss you and come back. Maybe she's having eyes for some other guy. Had you been in your 30s maybe I would have given you a different answer, but as I think you are much younger, I say: let her go.
emi Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 Had you been in your 30s maybe I would have given you a different answer, but as I think you are much younger, I say: let her go. What ages have anything to do with this? I dont think people love less when they are younger and for OP, i think she's lost interest. When woman show you the coldside, it literally means that they just dont want to be with you anymore. I know its tough and hard to swallow but that isnt your fault or anything u can do to change it. Its like when we grow, we grow apart. Lost is a part of life, and we must go through it, there isnt any other way
CherryT Posted November 3, 2013 Posted November 3, 2013 What ages have anything to do with this? I dont think people love less when they are younger I know this wasn't directed to me, but I think in a LDR situation, age does factor in. I think you can love the same or more if you're younger but you may not have the maturity or capability (financially) to continue a LDR. 1
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