JR91 Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 I dont know who to be angry at, myself for trusting my friend, my friend for betraying me, or my ex for being drunk and horny. She said she would never do anything to hurt me no matter if we were broken up, she said she would never in her life get at my close friends. All this changed 2 days ago, we ended up at the same party I was having a good time because I wanted to show her we could still have fun together even though we were broken up. Well she got super wasted and started trying to get laid. I know she wasnt in the right state so I kept her safe even though she was cruel to me I didnt want anyone to get to her because she would regret it the next day she ended up crashing in my friends room he told me no one would go in while he was on watch even his room mate and his girlfriend reassured me, they are all my close friends. well guess what I endup passing out and he stays in the room with her. she wakes up horny n guess whos the only person around. Him I cant believe he did her if he was a true friend he wouldnt touch her. n u know what else is funny, after she came to her senses she had the nerve to go climb into bed with me on the living room couch after she had just ****ed someone else. it wasnt till the next day that she told me what she remembered, i litterally almost puked. I feel so broken, im mad at my so called friend, but i cant help but feel anger towards my ex as well she told me she remembers bits n towards the end she remembers not fighting him off. I cant help but be angry at myself as well, Why the **** didnt i stay awake, why did i trust him i feel like punching anything i see at the moment. i dont know what to do she told me she regrets it that she would never in her life have done him that he took advantage of her. I cant help but be angry because I know how she is when shes drunk shes a horndog and im sure she eased into it too. I spent the whole day with her trying to cope with it and trying to convince myself it wasnt her fault but I cant keep myself from being angry at both of them. I just cant believe they could have done this to me. I am really trying my best to be the better man and just move on but its hard! I keep getting the images in my head of what they did and i get this rush of anger which slowly fades into sorrow because theres nothing I can do about it. I told my ex to message him n try to get it out of him n that ****er tried lying his way ut of what he did. He though she didnt remember I blocked him and she unfriended him n said she was going to ignore him. in a thread I read earlier though its true people never really change n im sure my ex would do something like that again under the influence i need some advice or help or words to lift me up and help me get on with my life. if anyone has experienced something like this please share how u got over it.
Mr Scorpio Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 I have never dealt with anything quite that bad, though not far off. My stance? To hell with both of them, especially to your former friend. I could see if it had been years since the break-up and you had clearly expressed the fact that you were over your ex. However, I'm assuming that isn't the case here. To hell with that guy. 1
lovelylilly Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 I agree...he wasn't a true friend. If it were me, I don't think I could forgive either one of them. I'm so sorry that happened, they don't sound like nice people. 2
AnyaNova Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 Some questions to think about. Do you want to be friends with someone who would be so inconsiderate of your feelings, and would take advantage of a drunk woman, no matter who she is? Do you want this girl back, who so often let's alcohol make important relational decisions (answer this one with your logical brain extrapolating what you would want in a future where she isn't currently essentially, "your drug" :-))? We are all at varying stages of recovery, setback, and getting there. Keep posting and keep taking care of yourself. :-) 2
Author JR91 Posted October 23, 2013 Author Posted October 23, 2013 Well after serious thought and help from a friend I have decided to cut her off completely. I cut my so called friend off the day of but i was still blinded because I loved this girl. I talked to my friend the other roommate that i talked about, he was very disappointed and told me i don't need that **** in my life. He helped open my eyes and I have completely cut her off. hes even thinking of telling him to move because he cant see himself trusting the guy anymore. Now i just have one obstacle I have to go return her stuff I don't want to see her face but im going to have to. I'm ready to close this ****ty chapter in my life. thanks for the advice guys.
Blastoplast Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 Friends don't stick their dick in your girlfriend or ex girlfriends. /thread
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