sotoman Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 hi all. i met a girl at work a few months ago, and we hit it off right away. we have the same movie interests, so I lent her a dvd. SHE asked for MY number, and I took it that she was interested in me. a few days later, I gave her a call. no answer. I left a message. a few days after that, I sent her a text, no answer. never heard from her again. this was two months ago. yesterday I bumped into her. we chatted, she did the 'playing with her hair' thing, and smiled alot. i mentioned that I called her, and she smiled a HUGE smile, and said, "you called me!" she seemed happy that I called her. (I can't figure out how she didn't know I called or texted her!) anyway, as she was leaving, she came over and told me that she had some move passes and she had nobody to go with. she asked if I wanted to go, I said yes. the tickets are for a few days from now. i know it takes a lot of guts for a girl to ask a guy out, so what I can't figure is this" WHY THE HELL IS SHE NOT ANSWERING MY CALL? again. i called her once and left a message. again no answer. im a bit frustrated, firstly because the date of the movie is in a few days. second, why the heck did she ask me out and then not reply? twice! is she flaky? is she busy? or maybe she just felt obligated because she still has my dvd? im thinking I shouldn't hold my breath. yes she is super awesome, brainy, etc. all the things I look for in a girl. but I am at a loss for what to do. should I try calling again? or should I just let it go? any advice will help! thanks.
Tina747 Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 (edited) I normally wouldn't think this, but based on what you have said, it sounds like you may have called the wrong number. She just does not sound like someone trying to avoid you. Did you actually hear her voice in the outgoing voice mail? Check with her that you have her right number. Edited October 23, 2013 by Tina747 1
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