I told her I like her now what?

[Mysterion]

Today I told the girl I liked for 1 month who I've been talking to for a long time that I liked really liked her today. I told her that I knew she had a boyfriend(Long distance only met once in person) and I respected that but told her I had to get something of my chest and it was that I really liked her more than just a friend. When I told her she turned her head to me and smiled and said I know. I asked how she felt about me she told me "for now" we're just friends. I told her I was interested in dating her. She said if she were to break up with her bf it would take her 1 year to get over it. I said if anything happens I'm here. A few of my friends who I told I liked her told me it's not worth waiting 1 year although I would wait for her since I've never had a gf and I'm turning 21 been single all my life. I feel as if I had a shot with her because she was giving me all the signs in the first couple of weeks like walking around campus with our arms linked (she would always be the one to initiate that),she would tell me to walk her to class every time she sees me and etc etc etc. But I didn't want to tell her because I thought it was too early. One of my friends who is a close friend of hers told me that I took to long because he knows how she is. This is the first girl I told what my intentions were never had the courage to do it to any girl for some reason I did it to her.She didn't act weird around me later during the day she acted perfectly normal like always she wanted me to join her in the cafeteria with a friend of ours since they were going to eat.I'm happy I got it off my feeling off my chest but I feel as if I messed up for taking too long. She was the 2nd girl in my life I really liked. The first one I chased for 3 years in hs got rejected in the end didn't tell her my feelings just asked if she would like to go watch a movie she told me she is always busy and she would let me know but never did. What should I do?I'm thinking about messaging her telling her I'm happy I got what I needed to say off my chest and I'm sorry it took this long to tell her.

Edited October 22, 2013 by Mysterion

[Maxtor]

Bad move partner, bad move. First, and as a personal opinion, never tell a girl you like her. You just have to go with the flow, giving her hints, be all "macho" over her, and try to see some hints, like touches, messages, whatever. I prefer to look a girl in the eyes and kiss her, if the mood is right.

 

Second, never say that you will wait, there is no challenge on that. Now she took you for granted.

 

And third, come on man, boundries, i dont care if her boyfriend is in space with marvin the martian, dont ever go for a girl with boyfriend.

[todreaminblue]

Don't know if you can do much more......you have told her, she has told you it will take ayear...the depth of what you feel for her will help you decide whether to wait or not......ahhh romance and liking soemone as more than a friend sucks...huh?...smilin....dont give up if you have strong feelings for her...you never know hwo long it will take.....she knows how you feel whatever you do decide to do .... i hope follow your heart and that heart of yours....does know what it wants......so listen ...best wishes from me to you.....deb

[Assasda]

Dude you are done.

Get ready to be her male gay friend, because thats all you are to her.

 

She told you to wait for a year after hahahahahahahahahahaha. She's playing you like a funky piano and you dont even know it.

I bet you'll be there for her when she breaks up with her bf and when she's feeling bad on her period too.

 

 

My advice: Move on

[Lansing]

I know you probably won't listen to this but I wish I had someone to tell me to move on when I was your age and had "one-itis". You should google that and read up on it. Basically you are putting this one girl on a pedestal.