ponchsox Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 I sent my ex a DVD I bought for her of her favorite move. I was actually going to give it to her the week we broke up. I'm doing it because I acted like a d!ck after our breakup and I want her to think of me positively and not have the last things I said stuck in her head. A note said simply, "I wanted you to have this. Please call me when you're ready." I don't really care if she calls or not, she may over time, but at least I don't feel like a total jerk. She can still keep nice things from me as I have of her.
Assasda Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 Seems like a manipulative gift. Dont know why you contacted her
Mr Scorpio Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 I don't doubt your intentions, but I rather doubt that this is going to work. If my ex mailed me a gift after lashing out at me, I would think she was shallow, materialistic, and needed to buy a clue. Again, I don't doubt that you wanted to leave a better final impression. However, I think there are better ways to do that than a DVD.
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