Hebetates Posted December 10, 2004 Posted December 10, 2004 I met this girl from online at a local bar. We had a great time getting to know to each other. We seem to have a lot in common. She gave me the “green light” right way. Later through out the night we ended up holding hands, which she grab mine first. She even accidentally blur out “I like you” The date ended with us hugging and kissing. She won’t let go after the two times of me saying “I’m going go”, I had to pull myself away from her, because I didn’t want too much happen too soon. So, we departed with each of us hopefully thinking that was a “Great date”! She called the following day, asking if I would like to hang out this past Wednesday but she just remember that she is going to have/had internet cable install that day too. That “oh never mind I’m going be really busy playing online games, that I really love to do.” I said, “No big deal, some other time.” She said, “yeah, call me, if you want to do something so other time.” Now, since I have not dated in an awful long time. I need some advice. I want to go out this weekend again with her. So, I called her the day of cable install, no answer, so I left a message that to call me back. She didn’t that night and the following day she didn’t either. Do I call her again this Friday or Saturday? If she does not call me back. I think she is really cool which I think she thinks the same of me. But if call her too soon, I don’t want to appear desperate. Should I just wait a few more days?
Pocky Posted December 10, 2004 Posted December 10, 2004 If you called on Wednesday to invite her out this weekend and she hasn't returned her call you should probably assume she's busy this weekend. I wouldn't call again for the rest of the week/weekend. If you don't hear from her again call her next Wednesday and invite her to do something on the following weekend.
alphamale Posted December 10, 2004 Posted December 10, 2004 Originally posted by Pocky If you called on Wednesday to invite her out this weekend and she hasn't returned her call you should probably assume she's busy this weekend. I wouldn't call again for the rest of the week/weekend. If you don't hear from her again call her next Wednesday and invite her to do something on the following weekend. Pocky's advice above is good. But I would add that if she does not call you back after you call her next week then forget about her. The chances of her not getting 2 messages is almost zero.
Hebetates Posted December 10, 2004 Posted December 10, 2004 Thanks, for the advice. Just to make it more clear. Only thing I said on the Message was to "call me". I didn't tell her what I had plan because I was hopping she would get back to me.
Pocky Posted December 11, 2004 Posted December 11, 2004 Next message you leave inform her that you'd like to do something over the weekend if she's available. If you don't hear from her, assume she's not interested. Two calls in the span of a week is sufficient and more than that would be overbearing. Good luck.
Naive Posted December 11, 2004 Posted December 11, 2004 I totally agree with pocky. If after the second call she does not return your phone call it's most likely she is not interested.
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