Joe2Rivers Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 Greetings everyone, hopefully you can help me out here. My girlfriend hesitantly broke up with me a week ago today after giving me the cold shoulder for a week prior to that. Everything was going great, and literally she just snapped out of nowhere and asked me "Are you happy?". It just escalated from that. Perhaps she was overthinking everything, who knows. I know she has depression issues and maybe even a mild form of bi-polar. I tried my best to salvage it but she wanted to end it. We gave each other one last kiss and said, I love you and haven't talked to her since (trying the No Contact Rule, since it worked many times before). 5 days after the breakup, I post a new profile picture on facebook, she must of seen it and deleted me off of facebook. Re-added me immediately after, then declined it. Either that was by accident or letting me know she deleted me. The next day when I come home from work, I find a DVD that I left at her house weeks ago, leaning against my door. On it, there was a piece of paper with my name and a heart beside it. Given this, she obviously still cares about me. Is this a stunt for her to get me to think about her? I just don't understand, a week ago she was acting as if we were strangers. Maybe shes already regretting her decision but its only been a week. I would love to give us another chance. What should I do? Maintain no contact? Contact her in a week or two? If you need anymore details, ask away. Thanks
Assasda Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 More details would be good. Why the cold shoulder?
Author Joe2Rivers Posted October 22, 2013 Author Posted October 22, 2013 What details are you looking for? The cold shoulder came out of nowhere, she just snapped. She said she was thinking about breaking up for awhile because I asked her about her past months ago. I don't get why she was hiding it all this time then.
barky2 Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 If you want any chance, you do NOT contact her or respond to any contact in the near distant future. Give her space and let her miss you. Wait until she says she wants you back. Even then be hesitant If you take her back too soon she'll dump you right away. Make her worth it. Move on in this mean time. The DVD the blocking the readding don't mean a damn thing. Just don't let anything bother you Let it be under you. Get it? Barky
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