lastking Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 I have been dating this girl for a few weeks and we were into each other . We have known each other for a while but just started dating. She usually responds back to my text mesages so quickly but hasnt responded to the last two messages that I sent her ( one last night and the other this morning ) my text mesage was " How is ur day " . We are supposed to be going on a date this weekend. Not sure whether she is just busy or something and dont see a reason why she would be mad at me Any thoughts why girls do this?....Thanks!!
Philosoraptor Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 Maybe she was gored by a wild rhino? Take a step back and give it some time. No need to stress over anything right now. People get busy and if she likes you, she'll get back to you when she can. If she doesn't like you, well no need to waste your energy or emotion any longer than necessary. 2
Winherback Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 I promise you... DO NOT start sliding down this slippery slope. You sent her two text messages... now RELAX. Take a deep breath and start focusing on your day and how awesome it is and what you can do to enjoy it. She will respond man in her time. and the mean time you have been living your life to its fullest with plenty experiences/stories to share to whomever u are communicating Just dont jump all over it the very second she does. Also, some advice when texting/communicating. "Hows ur day" is not a positive attraction text. Its fine but I mean, did you honestly want to hear about her day via text? lol, no... you just wanted to communicate for the sake of communicating. Liven it up a bit when texting for fun or keep it to short and sweet to complete objectives and you can listen to her talk all about her day on phone or in person. The, I just saw this... and it reminded me of you, hope you are smiling text, or OMG, I totally just got caught singing def leppeord in the elevator as it opened to a crowd of confused onlookers or whatever. You know what I mean lol. Share little stupid experiences like that and keep her on her toes waiting for what you will say or do next. But whatever you do take this time to get back on a confident path. 2
Winherback Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 She finally replied Nice! Now just send her like 8 more texts in a row and see what she does lol. Good to hear brother... have fun.
Author lastking Posted October 27, 2013 Author Posted October 27, 2013 I have been going out with this girl for a few weeks now. We've already been intimate:) Anyways two weeks ago, we set up a date for this saturday to hang out. She had a halloween party going on at her moms place but said it was okay to pick her up after the party and hang out.During the week, I asked her what she was doing on friday and it happened that she didnt have anything planned so I asked her if she wanted to hang out on friday also and she said yes.Friday comes and I text her after work asking her what time I should pick her up. She replies with a message saying she wasnt sure whether I wanted to hang out and her sister had asked her to go to the movies to watch the Jackass movie. t kind of took me by surprise cause we had been texting and discussing this all week long:) I played it cool and told her to enjoy the movie. So saturday comes and I text her sometime midday asking her how her day was and what she was doing. She doesnt respond until two hours later saying "hey I was getting ready" (for the halloweeen party),she sends me a pic of what she was wearing for halloween, I replied saying looking good, text me later and let me know what time I should pick u up. She doesnt reply. I wait 6 hours and text her again asking her how the party is going, she doesnt reply. I go to bed and text her mid day today asking her how the party went and what funny things happened. She hasnt responded all day. I am thinking she feels bad for blowing me off twice but not sure how to proceed with this one. Any ideas why girls do this....Thanks!!!!
deathandtaxes Posted October 27, 2013 Posted October 27, 2013 Waaaaaaay too many texts without a response. Move along. 3
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