Author nocontactstartstoday Posted October 23, 2013 Author Posted October 23, 2013 This bit of extra information would be the last nail in the coffin for me. She has showed she doesn't appreicate you or take what you have seriously in any way, there is a lack of loyalty on an emotional / sexual level and many would consider that a form of emotional cheating. If voicing your opinion means expressing, in an adult and calm way, your disgust, betrayal and disapointment before saying goodbye for good then I agree. Everyone is different and many have higher thresholds of tolerance. I believe if you were to give this another chance, it would be ingrained in her mind that she could walk all over you, do what ever she wants to and not worry about loyalty because there would be no consequence for her actions. She would also have less respect for you too. Reverse the situation. If she was completely loyal to you and committed and then one day she found out that you had been sending dirty texts to another woman and one mentioned the woman masturbating to a naked / sexual pic you had sent to her, I wonder if she would be so understanding. Of course, this is just my opinion and relates to what I would and wouldn't put up with, your mileage may vary. This is the support I needed to be able to move forward. Im going to explain to her why I cant be friends or have anything more to do with her. I appreciate your response as it hit on alot of levels. Thank you.
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