notaneatfreak Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 My new boyfriend suddenly lost his dad. Thanksgiving weekend. I am trying to be there for him but its hard to be there for him when I am in Canada and he's in Europe. I would go see him but we can both not afford it at his time and he is moving the States soon. I want to be there for him but I don't know how. We SKYPE everyday and he's been drinking lately the past few nights - I know its his grief. Its not him. I don't know how to help him with this grief since it was so sudden. I know I am there for him but what else? It also hurts me because I know that I will not be able to meet his dad, the Father of this amazing man I know. They are holding on with the funeral until he can make it home in a few months time. I don't know what I am supposed to do!!!We have only been dating for a month and getting to know each other but I am just lost what am I supposed to do this has never happened to me before in a relationship.
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