AnyaNova Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 On the one hand, I really am not sure whether I am a good kisser. On the other hand (though I am moving beyond first date style kissing), I do know that my ex boyfriend (he was getting to be a pretty good learner though by the time we broke up), had this tongue-blocking thing that he'd do. Like, I had all of these things I wanted to try like running my tongue between his upper teeth and gums and all (that I read about), but I never got a chance to actually try it, because his tongue was always front and center and in the way, and I don't think he realized that I was trying to do those things. :-) Though he definitely had more skill by the time we broke up than when we first kissed. :-) p.s.-for women who immediately dismiss possibly good men because they aren't good kissers, a word to wise, cut up strawberries (with the intent to exchange), a game of "get the strawberry" can get them so focused on the goal of getting the strawberry, that you can teach them quite a bit about kissing without them realizing that you are "teaching" them. :-) Just saying. 1
Phoe Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 My method is some what similar when kissing a guy. I notice some guys go wild when you go for the ears or the area just below the ear. My first boyfriend went wild when I nibbled his ears, but I had 2 others who like... man-hulked out on me and said "RAHHH stay away from my ears, I hate that!" daaaang turbo. lol. my neck and ears are ticklish though, and have to be touched in just the right way, so I can understand why they might not enjoy it as much as the first guy did.
Babolat Posted October 23, 2013 Posted October 23, 2013 My first boyfriend went wild when I nibbled his ears, but I had 2 others who like... man-hulked out on me and said "RAHHH stay away from my ears, I hate that!" daaaang turbo. lol. my neck and ears are ticklish though, and have to be touched in just the right way, so I can understand why they might not enjoy it as much as the first guy did. Love to have my nexk, ears, face, pretty much everything nibbled and kissed on! Especially the area between my hips, lower groin I guess. Ironically my current partner is very ticklish when I kiss on her ears pre sex, though, once sex starts she does not even notice I am kissing them!
Author Lolita_Sky Posted October 24, 2013 Author Posted October 24, 2013 My first boyfriend went wild when I nibbled his ears, but I had 2 others who like... man-hulked out on me and said "RAHHH stay away from my ears, I hate that!" daaaang turbo. lol. my neck and ears are ticklish though, and have to be touched in just the right way, so I can understand why they might not enjoy it as much as the first guy did. Yeah, I usually just ease my way around when with a new partner, and gauge their responses. If its positive I continue. If I don't see any response or reaction I try something new. Most of the guys I've dated though loved for me to do things like that.
TheGuard13 Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 The way I do it: -slow -a little tongue -bite her lower lip softly, hold it there and make eye contact with her -stroke her hair -pull it back so her head leans back and attack the neck -hold her face -tease her by stopping to nibble on her neck and ears That's all well and good...most of that is not really kissing, though...that's outright foreplay. I think the best kissing involves little, softer kisses becoming larger, more enveloping, passionate kisses. Really good kissing involves several senses, and also includes the use of sounds. Subtle lip smacking, "mmms", moans, etc.
acrosstheuniverse Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 For me, it's sensitivity. The way his tongue caresses mine, the little things you do to drive each other wild (really gentle occasional little sucks on his lower lip), the way he uses his hands at the same time... I've had guys turn me on more with kissing and stroking me over my clothes than some others have managed when I'm stark naked and we're having foreplay! The forceful tongue going in hard and swirling around can be kinda hot in the right context (if you're really passionate, already having sex etc.) but just on its own, does nothing for me. Breaking off to nuzzle/kiss my neck and just under my ears. You can really tell how good you're gonna be in bed together by the way you kiss!
Grumpybutfun Posted October 24, 2013 Posted October 24, 2013 Please just don't shove your tongue down my throat. If you trigger my gag reflex, it's your own fault. That's all I ask lol. Just use the tongue sparingly. Phoe: That is tickling the tonsils...very smooth move! G
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