franksthebear Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Hey forum First time poster, long time viewer. One of my best freinds developed feelings for me a while ago. Since then i have been trying to brush them off as i really want this girl as just a friend in my life. Other people caught onto her interest and have teased us about it, almost driving her interest level up. At a party, i ended up meeting a girl i clicked with very well ( many of you will understand these moments are few and far between) and so this girl and me hit it off all night. Until my best freind heard us exchange numbers and now will not talk to me. What should i do? Give her space too heal? Go and try diffuse the problem now ?
Grumpybutfun Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 OP: Unfortunately, you can't control her feelings, and apparently she can't control her reaction to your interest in other girls. Yes, just give her space, but be kind to her in a very platonic way. Her interest will wane and she will either come back because she values your friendship or she will have to keep ignoring you because she can't get over her crush on you. Either way, it isn't your problem. You were nice about it, and cannot live your life worried about hurting her feelings, therefore not living your life at all. Space, Grumps 1
TheGuard13 Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 You didn't deliberately hurt her. So no, you didn't hurt her at all. She's just jealous and maybe angry.
Author franksthebear Posted October 22, 2013 Author Posted October 22, 2013 thanks for the opinions guys, i will definitely just back off for the time being and let her cool down. Franks
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