haggard969 Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 curious. have you gone to lengths that no man/woman has ever been n fought like you were fighting for your life to get your ex back, even if they dumped you for some one else. and you were succesful? share your story of how you got them back. when it seemed like you didnt have a chance in the world. 1
barky2 Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Many many people have. There's only one secret to do it. Let go. Move on. You can't fake it...it has to be real. You have to completely focus in on your own happiness and get yourself back to the happy person you were previous the relationship. I got mine back. But it wasn't a second before I stopped caring,let go, and truly stopped pining over her. Let go. Let go. Let freaking go. Barky 4
organizedchaos Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 curious. have you gone to lengths that no man/woman has ever been n fought like you were fighting for your life to get your ex back, even if they dumped you for some one else. and you were succesful? share your story of how you got them back. when it seemed like you didnt have a chance in the world. Read Barky's post, then read it again. You cannot fight for something that someone doesn't want. If they cave in to your "fighting" it will be out of pity. Do you really want someone back under those circumstances? It's hard. I know it. I'm there too. But I've given in to just letting go. Leaving it to fate. If she comes back, and I still want her, then it will be under the right circumstances and mindset for both of us. 4
barky2 Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Read Barky's post, then read it again. You cannot fight for something that someone doesn't want. If they cave in to your "fighting" it will be out of pity. Do you really want someone back under those circumstances? It's hard. I know it. I'm there too. But I've given in to just letting go. Leaving it to fate. If she comes back, and I still want her, then it will be under the right circumstances and mindset for both of us. Everyone will get to this point. Some takes longer for others. But there will be a point in time where you just say screw it and put your hands up and say screw it. That's the first day of healing. Barky 4
BrightHope Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Everyone will get to this point. Some takes longer for others. But there will be a point in time where you just say screw it and put your hands up and say screw it. That's the first day of healing. Barky Oh Barky...I know you are right, I do. I just want to get there! And like everyone else, letting go of that hope is what's holding me back. Thanks for being such a voice of reason to everyone here!
barky2 Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Oh Barky...I know you are right, I do. I just want to get there! And like everyone else, letting go of that hope is what's holding me back. Thanks for being such a voice of reason to everyone here! You will, I promise. Takes a little time but you will. And my pleasure, I'm where I'm at because of LS,so I pay it forward Barky 1
bedelgeuse Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 I know how it is - she just broke up with me 4 days ago. Its a battle in your mind, eventually you'll stop thinking about your ex 24/7. Just remember who you are, know that you are in control, and stay NC!
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