johmark Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Hey so I have a girlfriend and we've been together for 2 years and some months. I understand that there is a honey moon stage and the whole relationship can't be like that but I think that ended a long time ago and I was still happy with how the relationship was... Your could feel the love, she was my befriend and girlfriend rolled into one and it was awesome. I love her and if so anything for her. (not for sympathy points) I had an accident and fractured my spine and got all sad but she's the reason I try my best during physio.. I honestly do it for her.... N I can push as far as I can cause I made a promise to her. I do love her but nowadays I don't feel the love.. She comes to see me and we spend time together but I don't feel it and I really miss it... Its not the same any more... It feels like I don't have a best friend anymore like my girlfriend is gone.... Can't even remember the last time we kissed.... Am I to needy..... I can't understand what's going on.... Can someone help me
headinthecloud Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 You should speak with a counsellor because your situation has psychological impacts. You need to find the strength to live for yourself, no one else. She is no doubt struggling with the situation psychologically. Professional help is your best option here.
devilish innocent Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 I'm wondering if dealing with the spine fracture, you haven't been able to spend time doing the enjoyable things with her Maybe you can try to find some fun activities you could get out and do with her. Or find a way to be more intimate when you stay in together. The activities you enjoy together can help keep the relationship alive.
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