WhyYouRead Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 So I've known this girl for like 2 months. I really love her. I saw her many times as she's a relative (my parents and hers just started to hang out together recently that's why I didn't know her before). Anyway, we had a lot of close moments (she always stays with me even when our parents are sitting together, we find a place to have some close moments, I touch her, she touches me, etc) and we've been chatting since the beginning. My biggest mistake was that I showed her so much love and caring so she was sure that she won't lose me. She even told me that if she was sure that a person loves her then she'll never worry about losing him and she'll stay as she is. Yesterday, we went out with my sister and a friend and her. We sat on the back seats me and her. I tried to touch her , she accepted first then she didn't let me do that. When coming back, I let my sister and the other relative to enter our home, then I told her to wait for me so we can talk. I told her if we can be closer, meaning whether she can become my girlfriend. (This is the second time I ask her; first time was on WhatsApp(a chatting mobile application)). So she told me that she doesn't want a to be in a relationship for now. I asked one more time and she insisted. Then we went in and we sat at the balcony. I was sad and I showed her. She tried to touch my face and then she came and kissed me and she said let's stay friends for now. I asked her before whether it is personal (she doesn't want me?) or she just doesn't want to be in a relationship. She said the latter. We're now at the same university and I just saw her today and we talked normally. How do you think should I act? Oh and she said that she really loves me but not the love that I want, if you know what I mean. So yeah, how should I act?
headinthecloud Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Don't date family members. Leave her alone and find someone outside of your gene pool.
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