faithfully Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 aaarrrrgggghhhh i am sooo angry with this situation right now. I was doing soo well, finally getting myself back together. Chatting to a few guys, been on dates. I am on day 8 of NC with my ex boyfriend. Because we used to live together we signed a joined tenancy and now he has moved out I am resigning it just in my name. The lease is due for renewal on 10th Nov so my landlord sent me this: Can you ask (EX) to call the Deposit people on blahh blahh and ask for his re payment ID, it is so it can be transferred into your name. We will need this ASAP. Now because I deleted his number, I had to get his number of a friend and copy and paste what the landlord emailed me to him and nothing else and to let me know when he has done it. I am just sooo angry I now have to speak to him since I was soo determined to stay strictly NC. I am disappoint I now have to break it. coz when I was forwarding the message to him I got very nervous, had butterflies and thoughts what if he gonna be a stubborn bum and not do it. any suggestions or help guys please
aaron11892 Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 I wouldn't class it as breaking NC. This is simply admin stuff which needs to be sorted. You would only be breaking NC if you start asking how he has been and what hes been doing etc.
pinkie Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 When you got his number, you should have given it to the landlord and let them contact him not you.
Author faithfully Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 Yeaahh i shud have, mistake i made there. Just wanted to know ((
pinkie Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Just send him another text and tell him to contact the office directly. No biggie. And move on with your progress.
pinkie Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Or not... either way. It's good. Just little loose ends. Dont beat yourself up. 1
JoelBarish Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 This is only a minor set back. You will get through it. 1
mtnbiker3000 Posted October 22, 2013 Posted October 22, 2013 Chatting to a few guys, been on dates. I am on day 8 of NC with my ex boyfriend. I am way more concerned with this statement than your original question. WTF??? Take some time for yourself. You need to grow and learn. Not start dating right away. May I ask how old you are?
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