winterrock Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 I met this guy in a club. Seemed very decent and I kinda like him. We texted (messaging not whatsapp) for a day. He asked me out and even confirmed if I'm single. We made plans for the following week. The next day he sent me a good morning text. I replied him good morning as well and BOOM HE'S MIA for 2 whole days. I texted him again (which is probably the biggest mistake I believe). And still no reply. Although he's whatsapp's last seen is very recent, like a minute ago. What's happening?!?!
hasekninh Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 When he text you back, ask him why he MIA for you for 2 days. See what his response is. If you dont like his response , he fake on you or he playing is game. I wont be surprise he MIA on you again.
ls32ssibm Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 I met this guy in a club. Seemed very decent and I kinda like him. We texted (messaging not whatsapp) for a day. He asked me out and even confirmed if I'm single. We made plans for the following week. The next day he sent me a good morning text. I replied him good morning as well and BOOM HE'S MIA for 2 whole days. I texted him again (which is probably the biggest mistake I believe). And still no reply. Although he's whatsapp's last seen is very recent, like a minute ago. What's happening?!?! Either he is 1) Dead or 2) No longer interested for whatever reason. Either way, time to move on.
Leigh 87 Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 It's been two days. He met you once and he could just be the type who doesn't need to chat to girls he has only just met, every day. Don't contact him again. If he's that into you, he'll contact you and ask you out. If he doesn't get back to you, then he doesn't think you're that great. Whatever you do, don't bother with him if he goes MIA and then comes back later on. If a guy doesn't ask you on a date within a week or two of meeting you and he doesn't regularly arrange dates, then he's not that interested. At this stage, not contacting you for 2 days doesn't give us an obvious answer. 1
Author winterrock Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 It's been two days. He met you once and he could just be the type who doesn't need to chat to girls he has only just met, every day. Don't contact him again. If he's that into you, he'll contact you and ask you out. If he doesn't get back to you, then he doesn't think you're that great. Whatever you do, don't bother with him if he goes MIA and then comes back later on. If a guy doesn't ask you on a date within a week or two of meeting you and he doesn't regularly arrange dates, then he's not that interested. At this stage, not contacting you for 2 days doesn't give us an obvious answer. So should I ask him if we're still on for the dinner? Or should I just make plans for my own with my friends?
Lost561 Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 This might hurt.. But this guy probably is using you as a backup option. He probably has other women that he can go date whenever he wants and you are just another person in line. My guess is that this guy is 6'2 and has women in line to meet him all the time.
tlegend Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 This might hurt.. But this guy probably is using you as a backup option. He probably has other women that he can go date whenever he wants and you are just another person in line. My guess is that this guy is 6'2 and has women in line to meet him all the time. Except that this is just a guess. Look, I can do it too: He's a neurosurgeon, and because of his crazy schedule, setting dates is really hard. He doesn't get to spend much time on his phone, and just recently, he dropped his phone into a puddle after a 48 hour shift and is waiting for the replacement to come in order to text and let her know he's still on for the date. See? I can do it too. To the OP: Text him and finalize plans. If you don't hear back from him, go out with your friends. 1
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