kinder Posted December 9, 2004 Posted December 9, 2004 My ex BF and I went through a very bad break up to the point where we no longer talk and I treat him like a stranger. I like a person he works with and would like to phone him. I don't know what to do. I like this guy! This guy that works with my ex doesn't agree with what my ex did to me and thinks I am a very nice person. What should I do?
SexiiPinkLadii Posted December 9, 2004 Posted December 9, 2004 I say go for it. If you and your ex no longer talk there is nothing he can say about it. Good luck!
alphamale Posted December 9, 2004 Posted December 9, 2004 Originally posted by kinder My ex boyfriend and I went through a very bad break up and we no longer talk. I like one of his co-workers and want to call him. He agrees with me about the break up with my ex and is really nice. What should I do? Is it okay to call him even though he works with my ex? Yes it is ok to call him as long as YOU were the one who broke off the relationship with your ex. Time is factor too. I'd say if it has been at least 3 months since you broke up then it is ok to call the ex's friend at work.
Author kinder Posted December 9, 2004 Author Posted December 9, 2004 Actually he broke up with me 4 months ago.
alphamale Posted December 9, 2004 Posted December 9, 2004 Originally posted by kinder Actually he broke up with me 4 months ago. yes, i guess it is ok to call him as long as you're 100% sure you're not trying to get back at the ex or keep tabs on the ex thru his buddy. if you are 100% genuinely interesting in this co-worker and have 0% interst in the ex then give it a shot good luck
Author kinder Posted December 9, 2004 Author Posted December 9, 2004 Thank you. No I'm not interested in my ex as he is a jerk. I just really think that this co worker of his is a really great guy and would like to call him. The only thing is is that I'm not to sure what to really say. I have really only hung out with the guy once. Other then that I have just heard things about him.
Chris_T. Posted December 9, 2004 Posted December 9, 2004 Only do it if you're 100% sure you never want to speak to your ex again. Because if he finds out he probably won't.
Author kinder Posted December 10, 2004 Author Posted December 10, 2004 Thank you all again! Anyone else have an opinion?
She's Come Undone Posted December 10, 2004 Posted December 10, 2004 You're other post in which you said you slept with your ex, you also say you still love him??? Now you don't have any feelings for him. Which is it?
Author kinder Posted December 10, 2004 Author Posted December 10, 2004 I really obviously not sure what I want yet. I think I just miss what i used to have with my ex that is all.
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