alexjames Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 (edited) My Girlfriend left me last Sunday. We were only together 2 months, but it seemed so perfect. She was the most beautiful, gorgeous girl I've ever met, stunning facially and a body to die for (we didn't do any thing sexual apart from some boob rubbing and sucking haha!). We were going to wait for sex as she wanted to take things slowly as she is still a virgin. We had a few arguments in the final week (basically we went out for my mates 21st and all she done was dance in the club with random guys, let them touch her all over, grinding with them etc, and refeused to dance with me) so this caused arguments and that week trust issues kept being brought up, and then the following weekend, she went out with her mates and so did I, but she was constantly with other guys all night and told me she wish I weren't there as she felt like I was watching her etc. So the next day (last Sunday) she finished it, saying it wasn't fair on both us to keep arguing and she was no longer happy with me, despite really liking me etc. The trouble is, I like her so much and already can't imagine a time without her. I messaged her Tonight and we spoke for a while about things. She just said she couldn't stay in a relationship she wasn't happy in as it's not fair on either of us, and she kept telling me to move on etc. I am heartbroken and told her I'll never be able to meet a girl like her again and I love her as a person etc, and really want her back, but she said she can't. She said I'm a lovely guy and can be happy again, but I don;t see how right now! I miss her tonnes, and am not coping at all, even though deep down I know we weren't right for what each other needed/wanted, but I don;t care, I like her so much. We ended the convo and agreed to never contact each other again, and I just burst out crying! I hate myself for arguing with her, but I know she acted wrong! It's torture right now, All I think about is her, I can't imagine myself finding anybody else, and don't even know how too, but I need to move on somehow?! Edited October 21, 2013 by a LoveShack.org Moderator
harrybrown Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 Go NC with her. Do the 180, start exercising and get your head on straight. She was not treating you right. She did not respect you and you need to get her out of your life. 1
ponchsox Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 2 months is only the initial dating phase. No biggie, move on.
mendsley Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 You should actually be thankful, I don't mean to sound like I'm diminishing your pain, but if you are having big enough issues in only two months, you're better off with out her. Harrybrown hit right on the head! Good luck and post often if you feel the need
Author alexjames Posted October 21, 2013 Author Posted October 21, 2013 I really wish I could just move on and forget it all, but that's impossible right now! We had that conversation last night, and when I sent her the last message saying how I love her as a person and wish her the very best for the future, telling her how she can get who and what she wants from life and how beautiful etc she is, I broke down, literally. I feel pathetic as it was just such a short term thing, but I have huge feelings for her. Why do I feel like this for a girl who didn't seem to care too much about us? Is it pure infatuation on my behalf?
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