Bsumbody Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 I have become very jealous of my gf recently due to social networking sites, she has been going through a hard time last 7 months and admits she has lost herself, and is wanting a few weeks to find herself again and finish college exams. she says she feels suffocated and i recently let her know how i feel and why i am jealous i was mean and regret it badly as it resulted in our break-up which she thinks is my fault. we have been doing long distance for about 3 years and i would do anything to be back with her (even drop my degree and live in same city as her). she seems to be un-phased by the break situation, are her feelings gone is she just letting me go slowly. what should i do? should i give her the space? Ive been calling her and texting her but she is always busy with exams or with her friends. I tell her id do anyhting for her and regret the conversation that broke us up but she keeps saying "u ended it" and is not letting me try take her back, she says she feels that a break would help it, she says she doesnt want to lose me but im not sure if she means as a boyfriend or jst as a friend
KatZee Posted October 20, 2013 Posted October 20, 2013 Well, it was essentially your actions that caused the break-up. She has politely asked for space. You need to start respecting that and stop calling her up, begging/pleading, and further smothering this girl. Continue what you're doing and I guarantee you're dumped FOR GOOD with no chance of ever getting her back by the end of the month. Respect her request for space and you'll at least have a little bit of a shot getting her back in a girlfriend capacity. 2
flight E Posted October 21, 2013 Posted October 21, 2013 Listen to the last poster. He has said it all
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